Hey I’m waiting for a tongue tie referral my daughter who has an incredibly shallow latch that is causing me great pain. I’m trying to encourage her by guiding her to the nose to get a deeper latch but it’s a struggle I must admit and my nipples are so sore that silverettes are doing absolutely nothing! Is there anything I can do in the interim till she gets sorted? Xx
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Hey just came here to say I’m in the same situation as you, my nipples are so sore and I’m starting to really struggle now. My son is getting his tongue tie sorted next Thursday. I have been pumping on 1 side each time he is feeding on the other to try and have a break but he is cluster feeding so I can’t keep up x

Lay down breastfeeding

Nipple shields

Lansinoh nipple cream after every feed. Or you could pump and feed your milk via a bottle in the interim

Sorry to read you’re having such a struggle, it can be so painful. My daughter had tongue tie too which we got done quite quickly but even after that it was painful for a while.
These are brilliant for nipple damage, if you order now you may have them by tomorrow, I used them after my daughter made my nipple bleed, it was excruciating! If you get them keep them in the fridge so they’re extra cool. Another thing that helps is milk collectors that you pop in your bra which just helps your nipples not chafe against your bra/breastpads.
https://amzn.eu/d/0gRsfQ5o
I’d definitely recommend changing your position, if you haven’t tried the rugby hold yet that can be a big help or try the koala hold to change up the position.
Here’s a link to the team I volunteer with which is a video of getting a good position and attachment.
https://youtu.be/_oLxbCdKD0c?si=S7utw6mX1H5qJsJq
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…. If you are really struggling you could also try expressing and feeding her that way for a little while just to give your nipples a rest for a while xxx

I used lansinoh nipple cream after every feed and then the silverettes ontop with my first and it worked. I've heard nipple shields are meant to be really good for shallow latches too
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Pic so we don’t get lost

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I just wanted to check if others have felt the same!
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