Sex..
I’m really not interested at all 8 weeks post partum and my husband has been asking. I had a traumatic birth with forceps, an episiotomy and a small tear in vagina. We didn’t really have sex during pregnancy and that was fine as we were both a little weirded out by it!
I just wanted to check if others have felt the same!
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10w pp. Haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant in December
Had a birth with kiwi, episiotomy and small tear, similar grounds.
Its totally okay to be uninterested in sex, and very normal.
10 weeks PP
My partner and I have been starting slowly which has really helped, but on days where the baby has been more clingy/tiresome, I dont even want to be looked at LOL. Just be sure you're going at a speed that you feel comfortable with, and be sure to research into comfortable ways to get started again BUT ONLY IF YOU WANT TO! 🫶🫶❤️❤️❤️
9 weeks pp
We atrempted twice. Felt some discomfort so we decided to give it go when I’m fully ready
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Last night her longest stretch I think was an hour and a half!!
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