Refusing intimacy

You have changed how ?

He may be tired or have health issues. If you have children then often men experience lower libido due to drop of testosterone during childcare. That allows them to bond and be less aggressive. But t if your husband is the kind that only works outside and doesn’t help with childcare, girl you better check his phone 👀

Try to get it in, in the morning. I would be concerned personally if this doesnt change within a month or 2/3

Is he getting boners at night? I ask cause if not then that could be a sign he has low testosterone. What do u mean by u changed? Like physically? Could u try wearing something sexy to amp up the vibes and get u both in the mood ? Its easy for our partners to stop viewing us sexually when we act as their mothers and the babies. Try to hold back on nagging i findd my partner never wants to have sex when i am. Also listen to the podcast becoming her by margarit nazarenko i believe its spelled

U will get amazing advice

He’s probably cheating.

He is either cheating
Either gay or
He is not attracted to you anymore

There is no way a man will stay month without having sex or wanting sex

Some people can without sex, if you and your partner can that's many conversations. Love isn't enough in my experience. These can be phases post partum they can also be a sign of something else going on, health, hormones, stress, or infidelity. Getting to the bottom of why is important.

Forget about him. What do you want and feel?