Sex with boyfriend on the bed I share with my son
Hey everyone. Just here to seek advice as I feel somehow about this. I’m a single mom to a 16month old baby, his dad is involved in his life and have him 2/3 days a week.
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 5months, he stays 3hours away and he comes once a month to see me, he always book an hotel when he comes as i didn’t feel comfortable having a man in my house. I’m planning to invite him over this month but the thought of having sex ( it will be our first time if we do it) with him on the bed me and my son share doesn’t seem right and it feels like I’m disrespecting my son even though he won’t be in the house when he comes. He’s a nice guy and I really do like him but I don’t know if I’m over thinking it or we might just do it on the floor 😂
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Hey everyone. Just here to seek advice as I feel somehow about this. I’m a single mom to a 16month old baby, his dad is involved in his life and have him 2/3 days a week.
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 5months, he stays 3hours away and he comes once a month to see me, he always book an hotel when he comes as i didn’t feel comfortable having a man in my house. I’m planning to invite him over this month but the thought of having sex ( it will be our first time if we do it) with him on the bed me and my son share doesn’t seem right and it feels like I’m disrespecting my son even though he won’t be in the house when he comes. He’s a nice guy and I really do like him but I don’t know if I’m over thinking it or we might just do it on the floor 😂
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