Overstimulation

What do we all do when we need a break due to overstimulation and exhaustion?

I pass baby to my fiancee, straight away want baby back but move to a quiet room and snack out usually 🫣🤣 looking for alternative methods hahaha

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I usually go for a nice bath

Oh no, it’s hard ooo, we don’t just stop worrying as mums

If its a day that a break is an option (usually not), I like to give baby to my husband and have a bottle made just in case while I shower and sing my own music for once lol

I love 90% of kinds of music, but I don't like listening to anything vulgar/sexual around my son. That's fine most of the time, but it's nice to feel like an individual and sing sexy songs to my heart's content sometimes. I usually have to take showers while I have the baby by myself during my husband's work day, but when I have someone to pass him off to it feels amazing to blast whatever music I want.

honestly it does wonders.

I take my girls for a walk. Fresh air, sunlight and movement feel great!

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