Advice on checks/ tests/ changes

I've had two, with a threatened miscarriage on this pregnancy. If there's any incidence on either side of issues I'd consider chromosomal testing or generic counseling, otherwise it really can come down to improper cellular division or any random number of deletion errors or mutations that make baby incompatible to continue on. My heart is with you through this, take the time you need to grieve this loss and work through it however feels right for YOU. You know any possible future children won't ever replace this lost child, and that's not the point in going forward. If it feels right to start soon, then do so. If it needs time, make time. You may always remember this and carry some trauma but it doesn't need to stop your life or define you. You are capable and resilient, and so so many women experience so much loss before realizing it or at different stages that we understand and hold space for your feelings right now. If you have other risk factors that make you feel better, do it for it for peace of mind.