Boyfriend wet dream

😭😭 whaaaat

You cant control what you do in your sleep
And he's maybe uncomfortable with the fact you're questioning him
Usually I don't defend men but I don't understand what the issue is if he is having wet dreams as they're not controllable and you also shouldn't be recording him in his sleep either.

Your being kinda creepy with him...

What can you do about dreams? Nothing lol its literally nothing you can do , its a dream and happening subconsciously he cant control it. As far as not being able to sleep , the plug people use for airplanes might help muffle the sounds , sleeping separately , white noise sounds like waves or rain can help too .

Background of our pass he has a history of looking at other girls an admitted to me that he likes loooking at ass

girl wtf are these comments defending him???😂
I agree with you, that’s wrong. No one can control a dream however if the dream isn’t about his partner that’s wrong. In relationships/marriages you shouldn’t have a wondering eye he has admitted to looking at other women’s ‘ass’🤣
All you women in the comments are delusional and silly lmfaooo🤣
He must be thinking/looking at other women in order to have a wet dream about them???

Being lustful while you’re conscious is completely different to having a wet dream and not in control of what happens inside your own brain whilst you’re unconscious and asleep🙃

I have wet dreams with multiple men in them, I can appreciate an attractive man in public without acting on it. So can my partner, i feel like you’re maybe letting your own insecurities take over here and that needs working on. If he’s genuinely overstepping your own personal relationship boundary then sit him down and make that clear that’s not something you’re willing to put up with and leave him if he doesn’t respect that. As for the dreams though, he literally can’t control that and it’s completely normal to have wet dreams even if you don’t personally have them yourself.

Comments aren’t it😭I assume there other issue irl that contribute to these dreams, I know it happens to me as well, not specifically in this sexual sense, but if I rember an old friend they appear in my dreams that night, or if I’m stressed about something, my dream that night is the topic, the dreams u can’t control, but it may have something to do with other variables; lust, porn, a need for intimacy it could be different things or just one, but if you already know what could be causing it, u can try talking to him, discuss controling other urges that aren’t directed at you, porn addiction is real as well and as long as he is willing and wanting it change his state of mind and ways as well, it will get better I have experienced partnership with porn addiction and although it was hard for me, supporting and not shaming did help in my case💗

Sorry but find this weird why tf u recording him,
I don’t understand what outcome did u want.

Your dreams are a way for your subconscious to work things out...it's not a slight to you or whatever. If he agreed to be video taped at night whatever but you really cannot control your dreams. This has the same vibe as getting angry at the men for cheating in your dream!!