Ughhh

I need to have a mommy trip , the last time I had vacation was in 2023 , I need a travel buddy and new bestie , I have to fire my ex-bestie 😂

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I’m scared to talk about this but here we go

So I’m not sure if it’s just a phase I’m going through or if this is actually happening so please be gentle with me!!

Don’t know if I’m out of love with my husband, falling out of love, or if it even exists in my head anymore. I know I love him but I don’t know if it’s like a best friend love or a love I have because he’s my daughter’s dad… and I’m not exactly sure how to find out.

I also think I have an ick with him, he’s constantly about sex and that’s fine! I’m a horny person but at the same time I don’t want to be asked daily if we can get down with it or if it’s a possibility for the night. I’d rather spontaneous and not trying to promise him something and not know the night outcome because of how the day is….

Any HELPFUL things you can pass along??
Don’t really want to be told to leave him because that really is easier said than done AND we have a good relationship, I just don’t know what’s going on in my head right now!

Not sure if this counts as baby daddy drama but I’m making that my place to post this so don’t get onto me about it😅

Uuuuugggghhhhh

My almost 2 year old started preschool 3 weeks ago and already we have all been sick non stop. I'm extremely sick today, thankfully my husband isn't so bad and has watched the toddler most of the day. Plus every pickup he has an emotional breakdown that just breaks my heart because he misses me so much. Even when he wakes up from sleep sometimes he has a similar mealtdown. It just makes me want to quit so bad. Switch from my current job to random things like crafting and/or nanny again or freelance or anything else because as the title says uuuuuuggggghhhh
I even use to be a preschool teacher but rarely to kids completely new to preschool like this. When does it get better?

Weening?

I just fed my 5 month old a small amount of porridge and he very much enjoyed it. I know it’s early but he is showing all the right signs. I’ve only given him porridge as idk what I’m doing can anyone help guide me??

Idk what's wrong with me, am i depressed?

So we went to this dinner party and everyone was there, some family friends, and my son who's 4 months old, started crying because he's not used to seeing all these people and cried for an hour straight and i left right after, i had fed him just before that, not even mine that it would've digested quickly. He cried halfway in the car, reached home and he slept.
I cried so much in the car after he fell asleep. Idk why? Idk if i felt embarrassed, idk if it was because i was hangry, idk if it was because i felt lonely, idk if it was because it took me time to get ready and i had to come early befor everyone else. I really dk. I came home i cried more and more, until my baby woke up, gave him to my husband and i called my mom like a baby, and ik she must be worried about me now, but if it felt so weird to me.

My husband yells too much i’m 39 weeks pregnant and he’s giving me anxiety!

Been married for 5 years now with 4y/o son my husband have short fuse and would yell and curse at a wall if he’s working with something and it doesn’t go his way. He yells at me or things i do in the house like decorating he calls it “ this is stupid, this is dumb idea” it really hurts my feelings and I just don’t want to keep tolerating it and he apologizes and do it all over again. I don’t want to get used to it now my son is developing his temper and attitude because my son sees it all the time. With stomping of the feet, punch furniture. Idk what to do. Also first trimester i had to go through psych therapy and they almost put me on medication because my husband gives me mental breakdown.

He never compliments me, he’s always on his phone, he’s hard working and passionate about work, work in the house, take care of our son but not so great with me.

He doesn’t even compliment me, most men or women out there tell me i look so beautiful as a pregnant woman. On our anniversary i spent my time shopping and bought him shirt that matches me so we look nice on our 5th anniversary, didn’t even say anything nice to me. 37 weeks pregnant and i still try to look good for him. He doesn’t even touch me anymore. I feel so disconnected. He’s constantly on his phone and when I address this matter he gets defensive that he’s learning something to fix the house. Or he hides in the bathroom for an hour scrolling on his phone didn’t even poop.

One time i asked if he can massage my leg because 3rd trimester sucks he just told me to take tylenol. I’m so unhappy and don’t know what to do! He always criticized me

Im anxious about my 4w NICU baby coming home.

My baby is in the NICU for 4 weeks and will be coming home soon but I’m constantly worried my husband won’t help enough and he goes back to work soon and it will all be on me. He doesn’t even know her feeding schedule and hasn’t held our baby not once since she’s been born.