My husband yells too much i’m 39 weeks pregnant and he’s giving me anxiety!

You’re being abused.

I would be leaving. Imagine raising the poor kid in that environment- he’s a bad example for emotional regulation and even besides that, I would have the ICK 🤢

I can’t sleep good, cried all night. All he say is sorry for yelling

Im sorry you are going through this! But i would consider going to coynseling or leaving. I know easy to say that then done but you need to focus on you and who you are raising. If your baby is already acting like him what happens when the baby is worse than dad? The house is materialistic you can always start again, you can always buy another house( i know easier said then done) but take it from someobe that experienced this before. I used to defend my ex partner and be like well he hasnt hit me. Hes just overwhelmed. Oh but he bought me a car. Until his anger got worse and he laid a hand on me i realized my mistake! But i can sit here and talk about my situation but idk your partner idk what he is capable of but YOU DO. So take the advice that is suited for you and your situation but i really hope it gets better

I’d run a 1,0000 miles away from that man. I’m a domestic violence survivor from my previous relationship & only 8 years later am I starting to heal with lotssss of therapy.
He said sorry & still continues to do it?
He ignores you and your needs & your son is copying what he sees which will then take years to undo as my son did the same.

Abuse comes in many different forms not just physical.
You deserve love, warmth & compassion.
This man to me seems emotionally withdrawn.

Is there any place you could stay I,e with relatives or friends? 🤍

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I went through the same he was horrible to me and never touched my belly when I was pregnant.
Here is an advice and also what I did:
Don’t leave him now! Focus on you and the babies and your son. Save as much money you can, recover from postpartum, study a lot before making a move and even you feel it’s the right time you leave. Your not in a good mental state to go through divorce right now it’s too painful. It might take you an years or two till you feel ready, then go! Don’t rush now (if you can stand him obviously) I left when my baby was 9 months moved back to my home country and left everything behind

If you can’t leave you need to start focusing on your kids hardcore. I truly hate to recommend this bc my relationship was healthy, my hubs is kind, considerate, loving, intimate & would do anything in his power for me & our kids, but he used to have some anger issues w/inanimate objects, never us, but I have called him out for throwing things, not towards or close to us, when a project didn’t go his way. I told him he’d pass it along to our son & he’d claim it wasn’t possible bc they’re not bio related & he got his temper from his folks. So I called it out “see that kiddo, that’s how we DON’T respond to frustration”, hubs would hang his head & agree w/me & say “please listen to your mom, this is tough to break” & he did try, I could tell, but then his bonus son tossed his homework in the floor around 6yo & I never had to say another word, he started correcting himself & apologizing to the kid, explaining how he would be more emotionally mature & was trying even harder.