Excuse
Would it bother anyone else??🤣🤣🥲
My mil and sil, at their own fault, had to drop something over to our house the other day before they went to work, for my partner. Due to this, they were 5 mins late for their shift. Instead of just making up an excuse like there was traffic, they told their boss that they had to rush over to our house because my little one had hit her head and was injured, which was very much not the case!🤣why say that? Weird behaviour, right?🤣🤨they thought it was funny as they told me the next time I saw them. I think this is a regular thing, I know they’ve used excuses from our little one for work things before.
Bearing in mind, they make no effort with her/us, so them helping with anything isn’t in the picture anyways.
Happy Sunday yall🤣😅
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Dang yeah that’s weird. I mean if they ever call you and ask if it’s true you say nope
That is very strange behaviour . Who does that ?!
I would personally get your partner to speak to them as they’re putting it out in the universe that your little one has been injured and it’s just really weird x
Weird asf
Very weird and not even a good reason as why would they need to go to yours if your little one hit her head, I’d tell you partner and see how he feels about it
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Would it bother anyone else??🤣🤣🥲
My mil and sil, at their own fault, had to drop something over to our house the other day before they went to work, for my partner. Due to this, they were 5 mins late for their shift. Instead of just making up an excuse like there was traffic, they told their boss that they had to rush over to our house because my little one had hit her head and was injured, which was very much not the case!🤣why say that? Weird behaviour, right?🤣🤨they thought it was funny as they told me the next time I saw them. I think this is a regular thing, I know they’ve used excuses from our little one for work things before.
Bearing in mind, they make no effort with her/us, so them helping with anything isn’t in the picture anyways.
Happy Sunday yall🤣😅
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