Girl gamer

I think this is really inappropriate. You’re not wrong.

As someone who was cheated on and left by a partner who was "just friends" with a female he worked with..yes he has taken it too far. You are not toxic. You are not wrong. Your feelings are VALID and he should understand that. It should have been left at gaming and no number exchanges or anything of that nature. Once lies start and that trust is broken, it's really hard to come back from that. Trust your gut, ALWAYS. I didn't trust mine (well I did, I just so badly wanted to trust him) and it landed me in a mess. This is wrong. On all levels. I hope it all works out for you!

It sounds like your husband does have some boundaries in place. The fact that he knows not to share his location with her is a good sign. You are not toxic. As a wife, you have every rights to be worried about her behaviour.

I would keep an eye on their interactions, just to make sure your husband is not silly enough to let this woman manipulate him in doing things he shouldn’t be doing.

Though I would be very firm with my hubby if it makes me uncomfortable. If you’re married, you should not be flirty with other’s partners, or anyone else for that matter. It’s within reasons to keep her as far away from your family as possible. Who has time for toxic people!

You are fine. Just protecting your marriage, and husband, which is what we ought to do anyway.

You should be able to talk to your other half about these concerns.

Girl you are Not toxic. I’m a girl gamer. I play with guys yes. I don’t talk to them in the game or in a chat or at all! Unless it’s strictly about the game like “go here, grab this” anything beyond that would be crossing a line. He’s forming an emotional relationship with her. He should not have her on anything except as a friend on the game system! That’s only if you allow it also.

If you found out she’s married via Facebook, why don’t you message her husband and let him know that his wife is out in these streets flirting with other men and asking for their numbers and wants to know their locations too 🤣

You are NOT toxic in the slightest. Your husband, however, is either extremely naive/dumb, or he’s enjoying the attention this other woman gives to him. Snapchat is known as the cheaters app 👀

Why does he have her number? Like you said, he’s not mf cupid! And even if they did like one another, why do they need another person to set them up? Like they can’t swap numbers themselves? Extremely suss.

I’d be asking to see the messages between them to see what’s really going on.

CRAZZYYY how much you let slide girlie! Being married means I shouldn’t have to spell out not to be on Snapchat with other women, and not giving your number out.

Very wild that men think a Video game is a valid reason for this.

I love what said because she doesn’t need her man to tell her what’s inappropriate cuz it’s common damn Sense!

Like even if you have no insecurities in your relationship it’s literally about consideration and respect!

Like he’s not getting brownie points from me for knowing he shouldn’t share his location because DUHH!

And don’t gaslight yourself either. You know CUZ YOU JUST KNOW!