3 Year Old

My 3 year old little boy is really struggling with potty training.
We introduced potty and pants this weekend and it has made him now scared to wee so he is withholding his wee and saying it hurts.
He won’t sit on the potty or toilet at all, it’s like he is scared.
We have tried nothing but positive reinforcement but feel like we are at a loss now.
Please help!!

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