Just been reading about how the government have clarified that non-refundable deposits are not allowed by nurseries unless the child does not take up the space
We’ve paid £100; £50 of which will be taken off bill and £50 “non refundable”. Has anyone had any joy getting this money back? Thanks in advance 🥰
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When have you payed this?
And are you paying anything monthly for childcare? I'm pretty sure if your funded hours ONLY they can't but if your paying alongside funding they can x

I haven’t heard they’re not allowed to do this, and it’s still common practise so surprises me. I paid one for mine and haven’t even questioned it.
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I’m really struggling recently with finding anyone who’s possibly went through or knows anyone going through my situation 😭 my fiancé wanted to separate recently after 15 years together and our baby who is 4 months I can’t ever get my brain around how you just stop loving someone our house is getting valued this week and everything just feels so numb not many people will have probably went through this so maybe I’m just being hopeful! X

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Is anyone else getting little to no help by friends/family.
When I was pregnant I found out I would be a single mummy. I was promised by my family especially my mum I would get lots of support and help. Since the baby being about 2 weeks old it all stopped I’m lucky if I get 5 mins a week of help. Anyone else experiencing this. I’m struggling bad. Baby is now 11 weeks old.
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We are really comfortable money… wise far from rich but if an emergency came up we could take care of it and we can do what we what when we want without worrying or budgeting. In the media it seems people are struggling but at my job and at my husbands job its like its not as bad as the media is trying to make it seem. Has anyone else felt this or noticed this?
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There are so many people here, but its still so lonely. I want to make friends, but I feel like in my neighborhood its really impossible if you don't fit the mold. I live on the UES, but I am by no means rich. My husband and I went from dual to single income. The women in my community talk about nannys, private schools, and plastic surgery. I never had friends here to begin with, so now that I'm becoming a Mom I understand how even more isolating it is.
I'll be honest, I'm a hermit. When I don't have someone to go places with, I very rarely leave my apartment. Would anybody in this group like to do both? Apartment/netflix and chill + go on a walk along the river or go to the park?
Being 32 weeks has made even smaller errands feel immobilizing.
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