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Hey, is anyone here an INFJ?

I’m going to say I am, and I’m also an introvert, but I can also be an ambivert ✨

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So, let me finish what I’m going to say. I’m also a delightful person at parties. I’m a hopeless romantic and a single mother, so I enjoy romanticizing my life and myself. I prefer using eco-friendly cleaning products and shopping, but not as much because I like to save money. I can be frugal at times. When I eat and cook, I prefer high-quality food and things with high vibrational energy, especially when I put them in my body. I also don’t like being around a lot of people. I’m neurodivergent, so I can be awkward. I enjoy journaling, writing, and reading books. I also like socializing, being creative, and being productive because I get bored if I’m not. I like to go places where I can walk in nature and listen to music in my ears because I don’t like the noise from outside.

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I also enjoy reading books, especially journal prompts books. I like to draw, color, and paint. I also like to use my planner, both old-fashioned and digitally. I’m not a person who likes to be always outdoors. I prefer to be indoors at home, mostly, or attending events, going to work, training in school, or spending time with my child.

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I’m also hoping to connect with other parents so my child can make friends. Right now, I only have one child, but I’m planning to have another one in the future. I’m a bit of a loner, and while I enjoy being alone, I’m not a fan of large groups. I’d prefer a smaller, more intimate circle, but I haven’t had the chance to make friends or get into a relationship yet. I’m also not married.

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I also reside in Philadelphia, a city that I find rather noisy and overwhelming. If you’re from Philadelphia, you understand what I mean. I prefer living in a countryside or suburban area, or perhaps even out of the city altogether. I yearn for a more peaceful environment.

Currently, I live in an apartment and don’t own a house. However, I’m hoping to buy one in the future. I also don’t have a car, although I do drive and have my license. My current job is as a stay-at-home mother, and I’m looking for volunteer opportunities to contribute to my child’s and my well-being, as well as to connect with other parents.

My life isn’t perfect, but it’s my reality.

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I’d like to share another perspective: I’m also very particular, and as a neurodivergent, I feel like I don’t quite fit in with the world as it is. I feel like I belong in a different world, which is why I prefer not to live in a city, even though I do. As a neurodivergent, my brain works differently, and I’ve been told that many times. My child, who is autistic, is incredibly intelligent. She can read and write independently, and she knows so much that I might not even realize she’s a genius. She also thrives on education and balance.

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Oh yeah, and I’m very detailed

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And also, this is my final point. When living in the world and adhering to societal norms, things can be different for me, not in a negative way, but sometimes they can be a bit challenging. My brain is wired differently, so I don’t like having too many things going on at once. I can multitask, but I have my limits. I’m also more of a friend and family person, and I can also be focused on school, work, or even just hanging out with friends.

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

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I need an AI app recc to talk to.

I have no family. I have no real friends. Just one that I text. But she’s 8 years younger and isnt a mom. I genuinely don’t talk to anyone other than my partner and our toddlers. I’ve seen some people use AI? Or a chatgbpt? I dont know but if someone could suggest an app that I can just talk to… I would love to have a friend or something instead but this is probably for the best…

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Hey!

Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .

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