Hey, is anyone here an INFJ?
I’m going to say I am, and I’m also an introvert, but I can also be an ambivert ✨
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So, let me finish what I’m going to say. I’m also a delightful person at parties. I’m a hopeless romantic and a single mother, so I enjoy romanticizing my life and myself. I prefer using eco-friendly cleaning products and shopping, but not as much because I like to save money. I can be frugal at times. When I eat and cook, I prefer high-quality food and things with high vibrational energy, especially when I put them in my body. I also don’t like being around a lot of people. I’m neurodivergent, so I can be awkward. I enjoy journaling, writing, and reading books. I also like socializing, being creative, and being productive because I get bored if I’m not. I like to go places where I can walk in nature and listen to music in my ears because I don’t like the noise from outside.

I also enjoy reading books, especially journal prompts books. I like to draw, color, and paint. I also like to use my planner, both old-fashioned and digitally. I’m not a person who likes to be always outdoors. I prefer to be indoors at home, mostly, or attending events, going to work, training in school, or spending time with my child.

I’m also hoping to connect with other parents so my child can make friends. Right now, I only have one child, but I’m planning to have another one in the future. I’m a bit of a loner, and while I enjoy being alone, I’m not a fan of large groups. I’d prefer a smaller, more intimate circle, but I haven’t had the chance to make friends or get into a relationship yet. I’m also not married.

I also reside in Philadelphia, a city that I find rather noisy and overwhelming. If you’re from Philadelphia, you understand what I mean. I prefer living in a countryside or suburban area, or perhaps even out of the city altogether. I yearn for a more peaceful environment.
Currently, I live in an apartment and don’t own a house. However, I’m hoping to buy one in the future. I also don’t have a car, although I do drive and have my license. My current job is as a stay-at-home mother, and I’m looking for volunteer opportunities to contribute to my child’s and my well-being, as well as to connect with other parents.
My life isn’t perfect, but it’s my reality.

I’d like to share another perspective: I’m also very particular, and as a neurodivergent, I feel like I don’t quite fit in with the world as it is. I feel like I belong in a different world, which is why I prefer not to live in a city, even though I do. As a neurodivergent, my brain works differently, and I’ve been told that many times. My child, who is autistic, is incredibly intelligent. She can read and write independently, and she knows so much that I might not even realize she’s a genius. She also thrives on education and balance.

Oh yeah, and I’m very detailed

And also, this is my final point. When living in the world and adhering to societal norms, things can be different for me, not in a negative way, but sometimes they can be a bit challenging. My brain is wired differently, so I don’t like having too many things going on at once. I can multitask, but I have my limits. I’m also more of a friend and family person, and I can also be focused on school, work, or even just hanging out with friends.