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How much does your partner give you a month for your little one? Or do you agree on what things you get?

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All our money is shared so I just get what I need for the kids.

Me and my hubby share and I just buy what I need /want x

Never asked him for anything. I have full access to our shared account and just get what I need as needed

I’ll let him know as a courtesy but that’s that

He doesn't give me anything, we share household money. If there's a large item we want to get (like a trike recently) we will split it and pay for it not from the house account just for ease of expense tracking

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Hey ladies! Real question.
When do we have time for adult activities? Like I have 0 energy by the time my husband is back from work. And then we dinner, baby night time routine, pump and it’s like 10 I’m just beat!! I have 0 sex drive. Like it was always low, I never really had huge need for it even before pregnancy. But now it’s like none existing. I absolutely love my husband and think he’s a snack. Like I’m okay without sex probably for the rest of my life but I know my husband misses me, and I know he knows exactly when the last time we had it, which was a month ago! And thats so embarrassing to even admit, cause I’m jealous of those people who have it like 3 times a week, like how!!!!!!!!! What am I missing

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