Any mamas out there looking for an accountability partner? š¤
Iām trying to slowly get back into being active postpartum.
nothing crazy, just easing into things like yoga, Pilates, light workouts, and eventually getting back into the gym.
I was thinking it would be nice to have a small group or even just one person to keep each other motivated, maybe FaceTime workouts, check-ins, or even just encouraging each other on the hard days š«¶š½ If youāre in the same boat and wanna do this together, comment or message me! Letās hold each other accountable š
Intimacy?
Hey ladies! Real question.
When do we have time for adult activities? Like I have 0 energy by the time my husband is back from work. And then we dinner, baby night time routine, pump and itās like 10 Iām just beat!! I have 0 sex drive. Like it was always low, I never really had huge need for it even before pregnancy. But now itās like none existing. I absolutely love my husband and think heās a snack. Like Iām okay without sex probably for the rest of my life but I know my husband misses me, and I know he knows exactly when the last time we had it, which was a month ago! And thats so embarrassing to even admit, cause Iām jealous of those people who have it like 3 times a week, like how!!!!!!!!! What am I missing
Sex drive marriage and cheating
Posting for advice in some way, so husband and I have been together since 2020 and got married in 2023ā¦ He has cheated in the past, at least 6 different women, basically we have had issues with work schedules is how it started him on over nights me working days. That started the cheating, from there and me finding out resentment on my side started and then I just didnāt have any real interest in sex with my husband, boyfriend at the timeā¦ we tried working through things tried spicing stuff up with toys outfits the works, I donāt enjoy drinking unless we are in a social setting, so that didnāt help eitherā¦ we still worked opposite schedules until about October of 2023 honestly, and I thought maybe it would get betterā¦ I got pregnant in march of 2024 and he had 2 different affairs I know of in 2024 while I was pregnantā¦.and then in 2025 I believe he only flirted sent pix etcā¦. And then heās slept with one woman this yearā¦. I have a lot of issues now when it comes to wanting to engage sexually Iām ADHD and already have problems getting in the moodā¦ he doesnāt understand that and basically says I am the reason he cheats and our marriage is like this because of me and my lack of sexual desireā¦ at this point Iād rather read a romance book and be doneā¦ thereās more of course but thatās the long story short version š
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