Am I crazy, wrong, or is there more going on?
So I have been with my partner for 12 years. We are in our late 20’s. A long time. We have sex often, but Rarely will he do something more, but he knows I like spankings, handcuffs, blindfold, and some choking. I recently made a sex game. Where basically it’s a bunch of sex ideas, some bingos with locations and positions in our house, yes sex days, strip teases, new lingerie, role play ideas, etc all on a bunch of slips and the idea originally was to do one a week. He has a high sex drive and so do I. But since I made this? It’s like he doesn’t want to touch me at all. I don’t know if I’ve offended him by planning something like this. Or if hes getting off himself? Or something else? What could I have done? Suggest more? We both enjoy sex.
Libido since birth
Anyone else suddenly have a low libido!? I had a really high appetite for sex before having a baby, even during pregnancy. And suddenly recently I really cannot be bothered. I feel distracted, not in the mood, tired, unsexy, lazy to have sex. And it’s really strange to me as I’ve always been the one initiating and really high sex drive! :(
4 months PP, exclusively breast feeding.