Hey, my 11 week old is a fussy baby from day one. He has his good moments but generally cries a lot, doesn’t like change and is a sensitive soul. I find it really hard to leave the house with him. He’s showing signs of regulating better and tolerating things however, the past 3 days he has just constantly cried and is fighting all of his naps. He usually loves contact napping on me but lately he fights it and only sleeps for about 15-20 minutes. He has also been getting distracted during feeds.
I think he’s currently in the third leap but please tell me it gets better?! Especially those who have had fussy/alert babies. Do they settle and become happy & relaxed babies? 😵💫
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Might sound a bit far fetched but my daughter has a cows milk allergy and it caused her to be like this! But then she also spat up a lot after feeds and had pretty bad eczema along with it.
Other than that though fussiness and being distracted is so normal!

My third was a bit like this… up until 12wks she would just cry from about 4pm-10pm and nothing would settle her. Then it was like a light switched from 12wks and we saw massive improvements. My older 2 were so easy.. and I really struggled with this. She’s 2yrs now and a happy little girl ☺️

My 10 week old is like this. We switched him to a hypoallergenic formula almost 2 weeks ago because we suspected CMPA but nothing really has changed. We also saw a new pediatrician who started him on reflux meds almost a week ago. We’re trying everything to figure out why he cries all the time and trying to make him comfortable. Hard to say if any of it is working but he has been flashing us more smiles during his few chill moments, which he only did before while sleeping, but still crying and fussy most of the day. I know it’ll get better for us eventually & I know it will for you too! But it is extremely hard. I just want my baby to be happy too! I hope it gets better soon! 🫶🏼

Mine was like this, she had bad reflux and cried ALOT. It got better around 3 months, ish. She’s still hard work though (9 months now) and is very alert and busy baby.. I’m just thankful I have a clever and bright baby. Mother hood is soo hard. You’ve got this 🫶🏻

My baby was like this. We were convinced she had to have had something. We thought maybe it was CMPA, so I eliminated dairy and soy from my diet (which was pretty hard, but I was able to do it!). After doing so for a long time, she was still very very fussy. I decided to add dairy and soy back into my diet since she was still so fussy and since it is so hard to eliminate it completely from my diet lol. Around 5 months or so, she just started to get somewhat better with her fussiness. She is now almost 9 months and is so much better! She still is a particular baby and lets you know how she feels though. My thoughts are that she was a gassy baby and didn’t like the feeling of it, and when they are younger, their digestive system is still immature. So when she was younger, she hated how it felt and let us know lol. But she definitely got better, so keep that in mind that most likely this super fussy time is temporary. Feels like forever, but you got this!

hey! my baby is currently 4 months old but just like yours was fussy the very night we brought her home lol she did not stop crying and would literally make us soo so anxious my partner and I. We would look at each other like?!! what do we do now lol, you will most likely relate to that. we tried EVERYTHING. The drops, the gripe water, I would even change her clothes thinking it was annoying her or something or that she was too hot that's how bad she would cry. I would cry with her ... She was worse at night and I know for a fact that it was because of build up gas which I did everything to relieve her from it, like belly massages, bicycles and would watch youtube to find ways to release the gas which worked but the crying would start again 😂 😭 I changed her milk like 4 times can you believe it? went from cow's milk formula to goat milk formula ( Nanny Care Goat the pink lid) and it took like a few days for her to get used to it and she felt a bit better, the gas decreased

I’m sorry but my 14 month old is still fussy and winges so much of the time 😅 there’s so many different reasons it can be for though. Especially as young as yours is.
Is just trying to eliminate them and get to the bottom of it!
My boy has got cows milk allergy and bad reflux, it caused him lots of problems and being unsettled early on. Something to maybe think about and get checked xx
My 2 year old keeps waking up at 5am and is cranky and tired enough that she wants to go back to sleep but needs lots of cuddles. But because by this point sleep pressure is low she’s takes over an hour to resettle and fall back to sleep. By this point my alarm is going off 6:15am for work 😖😩
She used to wake up nicely around 7am and we’d all be a lot calmer and have breakfast together but now I’m either letting her sleep in a bit so she’s not over tired and there’s always a big rush to get out the door.
Any tips?
She goes to bed at 8-8:30pm naps around 1pm for 1h-1h:30m
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I’m looking for recommendations on a baby sling instead of a carrier or wrap, I’ve got both which my baby loves especially when it comes to nap time but it’s a mission getting on and off and she is getting heavier. I just want something quick and easy and didn’t know these even existed! She will be 2 months so not much neck control yet but is 12lbs 14oz, so conscious it needs to be decent for proper support.
Any mums have a sling that they’ve used from this age by any chance that they’ve loved?

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Guys I’m struggling! I know all babies develop at different rates but should I be concerned? My boy is 15 months and is some ways he’s smashing it and in other ways he seems very behind! He can count to 10, started doing his abcs and can say alot of words, but he can’t say mama and Dosent use dada meaningfully, he can’t clap or wave but can walk, point and has started feeding himself, he can tell me
What noises alot of animals make and what they are but he 9 times out of 10 dosent answer to his name, but he will bring me books and toys and sit and read and play with me and struggles ALOT with food, it’s a struggle to get food in him most days but other days! At what point should I be worried!

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When should I get worried that my son is showing little interest in crawling? He’s 8 months old? He’s great and sitting and has just started spinning when he sits but will refuse to go on his tummy.

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We found our baby is a baby girl this weekend.. I have been convinced she was a girl the entire pregnancy so it wasn’t a shock at all but just hearing it officially… of course I love her and I’m not evil, it’s just a lot to adjust and I am feeling really stressed and a bit sad really. I feel guilty that I’m not as excited as I should be and currently don’t want people to know because I’m not ready to be super happy about it yet.
I have always pictured my life with a son one day and, for very personal reasons and life experiences, I feel a lot of stress when thinking about protecting and raising a baby girl in this world which I’m sure people can relate…
I am worried about protecting her, I am worried about not feeling the same bond from her as a son, amongst a multitude of other things. I am not feeling excited to buy frilly dresses or go to dance classes and I know it will all settle and logically I won’t imagine life without her and I do love her, it’s just overwhelming me..
Any advice… 🌸

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Is this a normal feeling? I have 2 girls, one 13months and one 26 months so very close in age, I feel like since I've been back at work (I only work 2 days a week anyway) but she's CONSTANTLY attached to me, my leg, climbing on me, headbutting me and I find it SO overwhelming all the time, my toddler just cries all the time, at anything and I find myself feeling very anxious and overstimulated all the time to the point where I just don't think I'm enjoying it most days. Don't get me wrong, there's some lovely parts, but I just feel awful.
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