Hurting

Does anyone else hate that they can’t ever talk to anybody about what’s going on in their lives without feeling like a burden or that all you do is annoy them because it’s just a constant cycle of being fine then just falling apart when everything comes flooding into ur mind. I feel like I have no one because everyone has always left me because I’m too much and too depressed but then I just get more depressed because everyone leave. So at this point why try to make friends when all I know is the pain of them leaving because I’m too much and have too many problems. Or is this just me and I am too much?

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Mom bestie/texting buddy!

Hello I’m Lily. I’m 26 & have a 5 year old boy named DJ! We are from Ohio! I enjoy reading, being outside , riding motorcycles, & being w my family! We can’t wait to make new friends🩷

Baby shower dilemma

So for my baby shower IV sent out an invite along with my registry to all guests, as I’d never show up to a baby shower or any kind of party empty handed even for party’s if I don’t really know the person well I’ll get them a large bottle of alcohol or a candle or gift card, I would litterly never show up empty handed to any kind of party.

So I’ve sent out the invite and registry to all my friends and family, when it was my husbands turn to send out the invite and the registry he was against sending the registry and didn’t like the thought of asking people for gifts.

I told him it’s not so much asking for gifts it’s more a guideline because inevitably people will want to buy a gift and I don’t want anyone spending their money on something I won’t use as it’ll just gather dust.

My registry is full of very cheap £5 to more pricey £67 gifts so everyone has a general idea of what to get me whatever their budget is.

My husband has proceeded to invite people who barley know us and not sent them the registry and said he’s not sending it because they don’t really talk, and he doesn’t like the thought of asking people for gifts my issue is, if you “don’t really talk” whyyyyyy would you invite them to such an intimate event as a baby shower?!!

Tell me do you agree with me or my husband?

Should I Get Over It?

I met my BD August 2024 and found out I was pregnant February 2025. few days after I found out I was pregnant, I went through his phone and saw him flirting online with strangers. I had caught him a couple months before that on a dating app and thought that was behind us. I was angry and still tried to work things out after he begged and swore it wouldn’t happen again. I was 30 weeks pregnant when I caught him on Tinder again. To my knowledge he’s never physically cheated but I still count what he did as cheating. I crashed all the way out on him and at 7 months postpartum, we’re not together anymore because I’ve been giving him hell about it. But I admit, I’ve been allowing my rage to get the best of me and he told his family about it. His mom and sister told me that because it wasn’t physical then it doesn’t count as cheating and it has really put a bad taste in my mouth about them. They’re really cool people outside of that though and they help out so much. Way more than my own family. His mom and sisters want me to move 8 hours away to be closer to them so they can help me out more with the babies (I have 7 month old twins) My BD is in the Army and deploying soon so I’ll have no physical support at all if I stay here. Should I let it go and accept the help?

A vibe ✨

Hey pretty ladies ! I have a group chat with all women & we are looking to add some new ladies ! it’s all fun ! It does get spicy 🌶️ & we always have a good laugh ! 🤭 we prefer people who love to have a conversation & isn’t shy . If that’s you ! Leave a comment 😁

Back to work

Hey all 😊

How is everyone coping with returning to work ? I’m due to go back to work next month. I am in no way mentally ready to go back and especially not ready to leave my little one yet either.
I’m afraid of letting go of my current job but feel like that’s what I need to do at least until end of summer and then go back to work (I’d need to find a new job). Ultimately this is not an easy decision. Please share your experience!!

Spicy friend?? 😩💦

Looking for someone to send pictures and flirt with sometime? If near by somebody I can eat out from time to time. I just want a freak I can turn out but we can be friends