Help please

Hey, I’m planning on getting my daughter christened but I have no idea what I’m doing or how to decorate. Any advice please?

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When you say you don’t know what you doing / as in you don’t have a church? Or you have one and not sure how to approach the vicar?
Are you planning on having a celebration in a hall after the christening?

I’d go on Pinterest and type in christening decor you’ll get a lot of ideas.

All I did for my daughters christening was arrange a date with the church, find a venue and organise the cake and outfit. First time we did a buffet at a pub and the second was a goals and we did a buffet we organised ourselves. We didn’t have a lot of small kids to think of.

We did our little girls along side her first birthday, so church & gown then back to a family member’s garden for her berry first birthday so outfit change with a buffet and soft play. It was August so very hard to get everyone together for 2 occasions xx

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