Birthday

So idk if this would be considered bd drama, but he just texted me “happy birthday” my birthday isn’t until April 20th, we’ve known each other since 2024. And I just feel a little sad that he doesn’t know my birthday. Should I appreciate that he tried? Or be upset that after all this time he still doesn’t know my birthday?

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LOL MEN DON'T REMEMBER DATES WORTH SHIT DON'T BE SO UPSET BUT REMIND HIM THAT HE'S WAY TO EARLY

Hey im 4/20 too!!! I would be uspet but then i need to calculate how long i have been married so dont be tooo harsh. Got the month right.

I would just be honest. “Hey I appreciate the message but my birthday isn’t until the date. Thank you anyways.”

When a guy cares about you he’ll remember the date because he’ll save it on his calendar or phone. Remember it’s never too late to change your standards. But always remember what your worth.

Text him back on your birthday saying thanks so much

Girl men don’t remember anything I’ve been with my man since 2020 and he always text a day or two before before my birthday and atp I don’t even care anymore I just started waiting till the day after his to say anything to him bout his

My man and I have been together for 3 years and he remembers mine. It does matter. It's not super hard to remember those things. To be so far off is crazy. A couple days I can understand. But a couple weeks is kinda ridiculous imo

he never cared

Thanks guys, the guy I’m talking to, we’ve only been talking since like October, and he remembers my birthday, he even remembers my number off the time of his head, granted my number is super easy but he actually remembers a lot of stuff about me. That’s prolly part of the reason I felt the way I did about my baby dad not remembering, I wish I read these responses before I responded bc some of them are great responses, thanks again guys😊

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