Anyone else?

I am going through exactly the same thing I love my son but I honestly don’t know who I am as a person anymore and I never wanted kids and don’t plan on having anymore but I just feel so lost and alone especially cause I don’t have many people I can talk to about it

Hi sisters, I understand. I went through the same thing with my first, I’m going to be honest, it took about 3/4 years for me to feel like me again. It does get better, you’re adapting to motherhood, something that changes you completely in the best way. Don’t loose hope your personality is still in there 🤍🌷 my inbox is always open.

I could’ve written this myself. My husband and I got accidentally pregnant with twins, took us weeks to decide if we were gonna keep the pregnancy and eventually we decided to because it would’ve been too sad for us to abort. But I felt like motherhood was just sprung onto me and I wasn’t prepared or in a place in my life where I wanted it. I love my babies but my life isn’t what I wanted it to be at my young age. I keep telling myself that I’m gonna miss this when they get older and that I’ll get my freedom back some day.

I planned my baby but I felt I changed a lot after my baby was born. All good changes but I definitely changed a lot.