What makes u swipe to be friends?

Are we swiping based on looks or similar interest interest?

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Not the most beautiful, but someone that fits your beauty standards.

One you would like to go to a nice restaurant with .

Similar interests :)
Or I wave back to those who wave to me..... then my messages get ignored 🥴🫠😆

Why would you swipe on looks on here? It’s not a dating app 🤣

No, but at the end of the day, I don’t wanna sit across someone that is not visually appealing.

Location, interests, vibe, if she looks like she has a similar vibe to me. It’s great if we have same age kids but that doesn’t matter to me either I generally meet her at night for drinks, if we can add play dates too even better but not a priority for me. “Interests” to me includes hair makeup fashion nails etc so we can chat about that stuff too. I’ve met some of the girls I’ve swiped and msged with on here and made some friends so far, I saw Grace just Friday which I met her first time maybe 3yrs ago now. Our boys are coincidentally same age so we’ve done lots of playdates

People in my area

I tend to swipe on location and those who have children of a similar age to mine

people in my area and close ages in kids / # of kids

Both

I gotta say both because some people can give off weird vibes based off their pictures if that makes sense 😭

Location, age, age of kids. Appearance can give an indication of weather you may vibe or not and that can reflect their bio as well.

in our community

you up? 👀

hi yes hello I am once again asking for someone to talk to before I start having full conversations with my ceiling 😌

I’m funny, slightly unhinged, and will respond way too fast
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Im looking for her (ILLINOIS) 👀

Trying not to be so desperate for a mommy bestiie so I don’t attract the wrong friend. But everyone I know I could be friends with live so far… 😩 This is my last time asking . Do any of you bitches wanna be friends ?
I’m awkward weird strange but I have pure intentions. I don’t want nothing extra from you. I just simply want a real friend. I like reading, doing yoga, watching tv, working out, meditating, being silly, and helping others. 😂 yes I’ll spoil you , yes you can pop up at my house , & yessssss You’ll love it here HO! I had my baby girl Christmas Eve 2021. Now pregnant with my son due in August. I’m a Scorpittarius (Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp) 31 yr young ,married to my childhood sweetheart and new to the QC area (Rock Island,IL). I am bisexual but don’t worry if you’re not interested I won’t flirt. I do struggle with my mental health issues of major depression, insomnia, PTSD, and severe anxiety. I gotta passport and ready for some friends to go on a girls trip. I want some real friends who gone come through and it’s vice versa 🥳 & YES IMA TEXT YOU BCK ! If I find my friend group I promise u stuck 🥰🥰

I deserve better right?

No judgement. No mean comments please. Guess i’m just venting and looking for support.

My baby is a couple months old and i recently found out im pregnant. I’m getting an abortion. I kind of already mourned that. I have been ok for the last couple of days but the procedure is tomorrow. So i’m sure those bad feelings will come up again tomorrow and the days to come. I’m not looking to change my mind about this procedure. I was hopeful with my first baby. But after pregnancy and postpartum, my boyfriend has gotten progressively worse. Mean, controlling, stubborn, closed minded, lack of support and care. He thinks going to work should be the extent of his contribution to our family. He wants me to have this new baby in pregnant with, of course. Explaining to him that I feel like our relationship is not in the right place and hasn’t been the last year. I know guys. I should’ve protected myself better to avoid this. He said he would support whatever i decide but wants me to have the baby obviously. Hes cold, distant. Barely speaks to me. Treats me with no respect. ETC. I’m so upset that he can’t even support me in getting this abortion that hurts me to get but I feel like there’s no other way for me. I can’t take on 2 babies by myself. I wouldn’t be a good mother, emotionally. I wouldn’t show up the way i’d want to because i’d be a mess emotionally. Haven’t had any emotional support or much help with the baby “because he needs to rest” and his argument is also that if i don’t ask he’s not doing anything. Im trying to finish a masters degree and become a professional in my field. If i have this baby im setting my career back until they’re both in kindergarten.

Can’t kick him out. Can’t go anywhere else. Stuck exactly where i’m at. Tolerating his attitude and distance. We went to couples therapy for the first time the other day. I can imagine the therapist was like holy shit afterwards. I keep going in circles of I don’t want this to be the relationship my baby sees growing up. To, feeling sad when i picture him without us, alone and lonely. To feeling like fuck this shit, better off alone, basically have been doing it alone either way. To feeling sad again that this is how he shows up for us and that I wish it was different. Thinking to myself is there anything I can do to make it better but I feel like even if I was the picture perfect partner I think he’d still be an asshole. Just circles I keep going in. He’s said some awful things. From calling me a murderer to saying that he has authority over me that it’s God him then me in that hierarchy order. Quoting the bible when he sees fit. He’s not even that religious he just follows what is convenient. Ignoring the part I guess where the bible says that he should treat his “wife” (not married lol what a joke). like jesus treated the church. It’s just a whole lot of nonsense (I’m not religious either).

Ok real talk…!

Real talk — I’m on here to actually make friends, but I keep reaching out to women who say the same thing, only to get a three-word reply and then nothing. If you’re looking for real conversations and genuine connection, message me 🤍