looking for some mama friends or just friends in general 🥰

i really just want some close friends i can actually talk to about anything—like the deep stuff, the random thoughts, or even just how our day went 🤍 i miss having that kind of connection where you can fully be yourself, no judgment, just real conversations and genuine energy. i want friendships where we laugh over nothing, hype each other up, vent when we need to, and just be there for each other no matter what 🫶🏼

i’m not looking for anything surface level, i really want to build a strong bond with people who are open to the same thing. someone who actually wants to talk, check in, and grow a real friendship over time 💕 i’m also totally okay with long distance because honestly, if the connection is there, it doesn’t matter where you are! i just want good people, good vibes, and something real 💗

in our community

Making friends

Is anyone else in the same situation as me. I want to make some mom friends who would like to meet up and go on play dates and walks or just a general catch up over a tea/coffee. But at the same time I’m shy I have a 2 year old little girl and a 1 year old little also.
Would anyone be willing to meet up and start a friendship.

Universal credit and having a job

Is there anyway to work part time and continue receiving the same amount of money from universal credit? I've heard if you work 16 hours or less, your Universal credit money doesn't change.

I have a toddler and I'm pregnant so I kind of need to earn abit more money.. just wondering what my options are

What’s harder?

What’s harder - going from:

How would you feel?

My husband wants to email my therapist about concerns he has for me so she can work on them with me. He keeps saying that I’ve lied about everything since we’ve met but I haven’t. If he questions you and doesn’t believe what you say then in his head it’s automatically a lie. I can’t post the rest of the screenshot but I basically told him I know he’s gonna email her anyway so go ahead and do it. It’s probably some HIPPA law against that anyway so I doubt she would reply or acknowledge the email. I feel like if you want to fix our relationship call a couples counselor not my therapist that I’ve been working with for 4 years. I just feel like this is another way to control me. He’s already moved me away from my family and friends and I feel isolated what’s the point of emailing the one outlet I do have. How would you feel if your husband or partner did this?

Not sex related but marriage related.

We’ve been married for almost a yr now and our baby is 3 months old. I have a son from a previous relationship and when I say the one thing in common they have is the fact that these men feel like they know everything and don’t need help from me with these kids but the minute something happens, now it’s babe help! How many times have you taken your baby out and stated you won’t be out too long but yet you were out for a while longer and felt unprepared is enough food, pampers, etc? I have and i always try to make sure I’m not. My husband doesn’t like strollers and this is the second time he’s ever been out with our baby alone. He uses the carrier and i gave him the baby bag. The argument is : i don’t wanna take this bag, I don’t feel like i need everything in here. We won’t be out long. You don’t know what you’re going to need, take the stroller so you’re not carrying a lot, better to be prepared than not, don’t take the bag then. Now he had an attitude. Moving forward ima just let him live and learn like I do my son but when shit doesn’t work out ima let him figure it out. Idk if it’s pride or what but if he wants this marriage to last, he’ll stop being so oppositional bc I’m over it. He asked what’s going on her feet? I said she has on socks. He said that’s not enough. Where’s her shoes? Well she doesn’t walk and has blankets but now you know what you need to buy her. He hasn’t bought her anything as of yet.

Options for sensitive content

There needs to be options for sensitive content. Ie...trigger warning, poopy nappy, miscarriage, or yo im gonna upload my discharge 🤮