Sex same relationship. 3.5 year old conceived via ivf. 9 year relationship. She just ended it.
How do you get over the heartbreak.
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Hope your ok šš¢ xxx
Thanks. I was blindsided. Although since little boy came along things hadnāt been great, due to parenting coming before the relationship. I didnāt see this coming. I always thought life would get easier as our little one is quite difficult with possibly additional needs and we would come back together and find us again. But apparently she wants more to life and itās hard to love a child that isnāt yours

I was blindsided with my ex ending our 8 year relationship, seemingly out of nowhere. I know the shock and heartbreak youāre feeling. You literally take it one hour at a time if thatās all you can manage. Try to stay present in this moment, with what you can control. And let friends and family hold you up when you canāt hold yourself right now. Iām sorry youāre going through this ā¤ļø

Sorry this has happened. š I guess what I would do is to focus on myself and my LO. I would remind myself why things didnt work out and know in my heart I deserve better. Its going to be a big change but you will get through it. I find that having a clear out is what helps me deal with most things. X
Me and little one just moved to my parents. She sees him a few times a week but with her work pattern itās not very consistent.
The emotions Iām feeling are very strong and Iām struggling to keep afloat. Work is a bit triggering as I have a lot of time to sit and think which isnāt helpful so I just randomly burst into tears. I just canāt seem to keep them under control.
Thanks Ladies. There are so many aspects of it that hurt but the fact that my boy isnāt going to have the future for him that we was planning hurts. And I didnāt become a parent to be a part time parent, I donāt want to miss any aspect of his life never mind 50% of him growing up

I'm really sorry š
My 2 year old keeps waking up at 5am and is cranky and tired enough that she wants to go back to sleep but needs lots of cuddles. But because by this point sleep pressure is low sheās takes over an hour to resettle and fall back to sleep. By this point my alarm is going off 6:15am for work šš©
She used to wake up nicely around 7am and weād all be a lot calmer and have breakfast together but now Iām either letting her sleep in a bit so sheās not over tired and thereās always a big rush to get out the door.
Any tips?
She goes to bed at 8-8:30pm naps around 1pm for 1h-1h:30m
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Guys Iām struggling! I know all babies develop at different rates but should I be concerned? My boy is 15 months and is some ways heās smashing it and in other ways he seems very behind! He can count to 10, started doing his abcs and can say alot of words, but he canāt say mama and Dosent use dada meaningfully, he canāt clap or wave but can walk, point and has started feeding himself, he can tell me
What noises alot of animals make and what they are but he 9 times out of 10 dosent answer to his name, but he will bring me books and toys and sit and read and play with me and struggles ALOT with food, itās a struggle to get food in him most days but other days! At what point should I be worried!

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Iām looking for recommendations on a baby sling instead of a carrier or wrap, Iāve got both which my baby loves especially when it comes to nap time but itās a mission getting on and off and she is getting heavier. I just want something quick and easy and didnāt know these even existed! She will be 2 months so not much neck control yet but is 12lbs 14oz, so conscious it needs to be decent for proper support.
Any mums have a sling that theyāve used from this age by any chance that theyāve loved?

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When should I get worried that my son is showing little interest in crawling? Heās 8 months old? Heās great and sitting and has just started spinning when he sits but will refuse to go on his tummy.

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How do I explain to my partner that I donāt appreciate the fact he just expects me to do all of the night time feeds and changes, even when my baby is on my side of the bed when my partner doesnāt work? I would understand if he was working etc, but he doesnāt work so I donāt get why itās not fully 50/50? Like even when we eat he cooks his own food first when our son is due a bottle so I feed and sit him up for the recommended half an hour before feeding myself, itās just feels very selfish on his part. I donāt know if itās me being dramatic or hormonal but itās starting to get to me, for detail our son is 8 weeks
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Hello mamas!! At what age did your little ones start talking? My son is 1.5 and he seems close but hasnāt said anything yet

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