Switching to pull ups and potty training?
So my daughter this past week has been very discontent with diaper changes unless she's just woken up. It's like wrestling a little alligator and she will try to roll over and crawl off and will cry and just lose her little baby mind. Sometimes I can distract her with something else (wipes, other diaper, ointment container, toy, etc.) but it's a hit or miss (more so miss in the past couple days) and she won't even be satisfied with her binky. Sometimes I have to sit her on my lap, put it on her while she's on her hands and knees trying to crawl away, while she's actively rolling onto her tummy/on her tummy, or while she's standing holding onto me.
My question is- will pull ups help with this diaper time fight?
She is 10 months old, she can pull to stand and has taken a few steps while holding onto things, she has climbed on top of a storage bin, but she isn't walking or talking yet (just babbling and questionably maybe a couple words but not clearly).
Is this the point where I should switch to pull ups and try to potty train? And what tips do y'all have?
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I switched to a mixture of pull ups and nappies at that point, a nappy when it was an easy change and pull up otherwise (partly to use up left over nappies). Pull ups seemed better for avoiding overnight leakages anyway so it was an easy transition to using in the day too. He was definitely not ready to potty train and is only just approaching that now at 23 months but it made changing less stressful for us both. For others, potty training would be the right next step if they're more ready than mine!
We changed to pull ups as nappy changes became so hard . My daughter is 9 months nearly 10 and she would have a massive tantrum if I led her down to change her so she now stands or sits on my lap and then I change her that way . It means when she has done a poo she is not as bad and will lie there for couple of minutes xx
It doesn’t get any easier but I found pull ups useless. They ain’t good for potty training either because they actually hold more liquid than a normal nappy because they are designed more for toddlers with bigger bladders.
Okay suggestion on your first question. Change to pull ups because its easier to change and its harder for them to take off. Do not use pull-ups during potty training time. Once you introduce the potty go straight to undies . Yes use pull ups when first starting potty training while yall are going out but while at home I suggest undies or free balling.
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I’ve lost my lid today, please tell me I’m well positioned to do so…
My 9 month old started nursery and as part of his lunch he was served pesto and spinach pasta (fine!) which he managed well as I have been doing a combination of BLW and textured puréed food…
Then it said he had rocky road (all).
I queried this whether it was an automatic entry because that was the lunch provided for the day, to be told he had some rocky road whilst being supervised.
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On what fucking planet is this an age appropriate meal?
I’m devastated as I was feeling anxious about handing over the care of my son for a day and half a week as it is but now this has shattered trust.
In addition, the initial response was that I hadn’t told them Noah wasn’t eating anything with refined sugar content at home when I inducted him…
Am I missing something? Should my child be battling choking hazards, consuming refined sugar when he’s only just cut two teeth and consuming caffeine?
No hate to anyone who makes any other decisions but this has really rattled me. Surely it’s not a “standard?’’
Help a mama out
*****UPDATE*****
Nursery have accepted full responsibility - recipe included milk chocolate pieces, broken biscuit, dark chocolate, golden syrup to bind, Rice Krispies, butter.
Wholly inappropriate and directly breaches the settings weaning policies and guidance.
Regardless of whether the sugar will “hurt him” or not, the texture is dangerous for a 9 month old only experienced with soft finger foods and textured purées and so I’m glad I trusted my gut and raised the concern.
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I have primary custody of my two children, ages 2 and 3. Their father has visitation every third weekend. Our divorce decree, which he agreed to, states that if he moves outside the designated area, he loses overnight visitation.
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