HELP

I need help on how to tell my partner that he needs to do more foreplay with me. I am almost 31 weeks pregnant and I still enjoy and want to have sex, but I just dont stay wet enough for me to enjoy it. I dont know how to bring it up or start the conversation because its not that he does anything wrong. Its just that he doesnt get me aroused enough.

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Ready to give up on this app

I’ve been on here for a couple weeks now, haven’t made a single friend. I’ve talked to a couple other moms but either been ghosted or don’t get passed a how are you. Messaged several ads to join group chats, no one responds? Did this app fall off or what?

If you’re wanting to make actual friends and not ghost, comment below!

Dealing with infidelity (rant kinda)

The past few days have been very weird for me. My partner of almost 10 years came to me and told me that in the first 3 years of our relationship (before we had our son) he slept with three different women, two of which I also know one of them being his ex where he had sex with her twice. Before he told me about this, there was another instance where he kissed another woman that, again, we both knew but he told me about that almost right away and this was last year.

When he told me this I stayed quiet and honestly I just felt numb and for the past few days we've just spoken about it. I haven't gotten angry. I haven't shouted at him or screamed at him. We've almost acted as if everything is normal and it's kind of driving me insane a little bit. I haven't been able to cry about this every time I think about it, but I think it's mostly because I just can't imagine it. Our whole relationship he has told me that I've been the only one he has had sex with and it was a lie.

I refuse to talk to any of my friends or family about this because I don't want them to know what's going on and I don't want to hear their advice. I also don't want anyone looking at him any differently because of this. I don't know if it's just my brain not letting me process it all at once because it's just too much to take or if I've just given up and emotionally surrendered.

We have one son together who is 3. I am the main one who looks after him and does everything and I don't want to have a breakdown in front of him if it comes to a point where it all just comes out at once.

How does a person deal with this? What do I do? I'm so numb it's weird

Revolut or Wise

At the moment I'm using Revolut. It's mainly when I'm abroad to use different currency. But lately I'm hearing more about hacker attacks, getting personal data or the card or online transactions not working.
So I'm starting to think about to transfer to Wise Bank. Is anyone are with them? Do you need to pay extra fees while paying in the shops abroad? Do you have good experience with Wise? Or you with someone else ?

First-time SAHMs

How are we going about our days? Especially with a partner who has to work long hours :( I love bonding with bubba, but after some time during the day it gets too much and there isn’t really much to do. Any ideas on how to make the most of the day with a little baby are welcomed

I need a virtual bestie effing friend

Judgement free, venting partner, facetime like all the damn time, plans to eventually meet/ family trips, play Roblox together,420 friendly, girls girl and a girl who’s gonna ride and die and talk shit with me about life. If this is you send me your damn number I been waiting

i think i want a divorce..

i think i want a divorce but i have no job no education no car and i live with my MIL and have a 2 month old baby and we have a joint bank account. when i told my husband im considering divorce he flipped out and said i can go but i cant take the baby. i cant leave my baby! i said we can co parent and he said no divorce isnt an option… i fear ive messed up my life big time and im scared. i think it would be easy to leave if i didnt have my baby. what on earth should i do? has anyone else been through this??