First-time SAHMs

How are we going about our days? Especially with a partner who has to work long hours :( I love bonding with bubba, but after some time during the day it gets too much and there isn’t really much to do. Any ideas on how to make the most of the day with a little baby are welcomed

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I would deep dive into a drama tv series.

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I listened to a lot of audiobooks!

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I’m definitely feeling it, husband leaves before we wake up and by the time he gets home from work it’s about time to feed her and go to bed but I really just want a moment to myself 🤦🏻‍♀️

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How old is your baby? When my baby turned about three months, I joined a parent and me class (ours is called First 5) and met a ton of others stay at home moms. I exchanged numbers with most of them and we started doing a lot together during the week (play dates at each others houses, baby storytime at the library, baby class at the local gymnastics place, Park play dates where we laid blankets in the grass and let the kids play with toys while the moms hung out, etc) That class was over a year ago and we still do things with those moms and their kiddos weekly! It helps so much to have other stay at home friends and other babies your child can socialize with

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Look into local libraries for story time! It’s a fun and free way to break up the day! Or the local community center for baby/toddler classes.

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following! definitely feeling like days are very repetitive and running out of ways to keep baby boy entertained and happy 😅

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How are we going about our days? Especially with a partner who has to work long hours :( I love bonding with bubba, but after some time during the day it gets too much and there isn’t really much to do. Any ideas on how to make the most of the day with a little baby are welcomed

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