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I’m 19 and a first time mum to my baby girl Orla-rose since becoming a mum it’s been pretty lonely just looking for some friends I can’t see waves so message me x

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Are there any mommas that work from home that can help me out and point me in the direction of how to find a WFH job. I’m currently experiencing burnout from my job and i literally just can’t anymore

Does anyone feel resentful toward their friends without kids?

I can’t explain it but I find it so so hard to connect to my friends without kids because our lives and responsibilities look so different. Example. My friend/coworker is late a lot to work, meanwhile I’m always on time after getting both myself and my 18 month old dressed and dropped off to daycare in the opposite direction. There’s just such a disconnect :(

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I’m 19 and a first time mum to my baby girl Orla-rose since becoming a mum it’s been pretty lonely just looking for some friends I can’t see waves so message me x

Dealing with infidelity (rant kinda)

The past few days have been very weird for me. My partner of almost 10 years came to me and told me that in the first 3 years of our relationship (before we had our son) he slept with three different women, two of which I also know one of them being his ex where he had sex with her twice. Before he told me about this, there was another instance where he kissed another woman that, again, we both knew but he told me about that almost right away and this was last year.

When he told me this I stayed quiet and honestly I just felt numb and for the past few days we've just spoken about it. I haven't gotten angry. I haven't shouted at him or screamed at him. We've almost acted as if everything is normal and it's kind of driving me insane a little bit. I haven't been able to cry about this every time I think about it, but I think it's mostly because I just can't imagine it. Our whole relationship he has told me that I've been the only one he has had sex with and it was a lie.

I refuse to talk to any of my friends or family about this because I don't want them to know what's going on and I don't want to hear their advice. I also don't want anyone looking at him any differently because of this. I don't know if it's just my brain not letting me process it all at once because it's just too much to take or if I've just given up and emotionally surrendered.

We have one son together who is 3. I am the main one who looks after him and does everything and I don't want to have a breakdown in front of him if it comes to a point where it all just comes out at once.

How does a person deal with this? What do I do? I'm so numb it's weird

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So I have with my partner for almost 3 yrs now and we almost a 18 m old daughter about a year ago he said he wasnt attracted to.me and I found jim talking to his ex new girls and paying for porn +trying to pay for sex I have lost 30+ lbs since I started working out 7 months ago to try to save is now at the end of last month he went on a juisness trip he was trying to leave without telling me but I woke up he looked suprisedbbut told me they called him that same morning the next day he dumped me but he wanted to still live together I was heartbroken and scared ofc here's the thing he comes back EARLY like 3 weeks early as a supeise for me literally showed up at 2 am while I was sobbing and we talked he wants to try I want to try but he still wants sex cuddles kisses im just so overwhelmed im only 22 and never in my years have I experienced anything like this... pic of our daughter for attention

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