So I have with my partner for almost 3 yrs now and we almost a 18 m old daughter about a year ago he said he wasnt attracted to.me and I found jim talking to his ex new girls and paying for porn +trying to pay for sex I have lost 30+ lbs since I started working out 7 months ago to try to save is now at the end of last month he went on a juisness trip he was trying to leave without telling me but I woke up he looked suprisedbbut told me they called him that same morning the next day he dumped me but he wanted to still live together I was heartbroken and scared ofc here's the thing he comes back EARLY like 3 weeks early as a supeise for me literally showed up at 2 am while I was sobbing and we talked he wants to try I want to try but he still wants sex cuddles kisses im just so overwhelmed im only 22 and never in my years have I experienced anything like this... pic of our daughter for attention
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You’re batter off without this dickhead

If your daughter came to you with this same situation looking for advice, what would you say to her?

Sounds like he came back bc whatever he left you for didn't work out for him.. so only out of convenience.. not bc he can't live without you/truly loves you😬
You can do better.

Ew girl stand up before you get an std or std from this whore. Your daughter is an extension of you. He needs to respect you to respect her. Don’t let her learn from him she’s little right now she won’t know any different if you get to work right now.

I think he slept with someone && realised he made a mistake. He broke up with you so if you did find out. He can say we wasn’t together
Ladies do we see a line or no?
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So I have with my partner for almost 3 yrs now and we almost a 18 m old daughter about a year ago he said he wasnt attracted to.me and I found jim talking to his ex new girls and paying for porn +trying to pay for sex I have lost 30+ lbs since I started working out 7 months ago to try to save is now at the end of last month he went on a juisness trip he was trying to leave without telling me but I woke up he looked suprisedbbut told me they called him that same morning the next day he dumped me but he wanted to still live together I was heartbroken and scared ofc here's the thing he comes back EARLY like 3 weeks early as a supeise for me literally showed up at 2 am while I was sobbing and we talked he wants to try I want to try but he still wants sex cuddles kisses im just so overwhelmed im only 22 and never in my years have I experienced anything like this... pic of our daughter for attention

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