Ready to give up on this app

I’ve been on here for a couple weeks now, haven’t made a single friend. I’ve talked to a couple other moms but either been ghosted or don’t get passed a how are you. Messaged several ads to join group chats, no one responds? Did this app fall off or what?

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I feel you on that.. I made one friend and she has been super sweet and we had gone for walks with our babies.. but many I’ve talked to they just don’t talk much or yes don’t respond either 😏

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I wish we lived closer but bbygirl reach out to me I’m always down to talk!! @blanceaguirre on insta!

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I feel this, I try to message my matches first to help dampen the awkwardness but end up going nowhere. This is such a defeating feeling. 🫠

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I live in Washington but if you ever want to chat my insta is @rileysnotokay ! I’m in the same boat 🥲

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I want to make friends I’m in az like a texting buddy or ft buddy would be awesome I’m a sahm

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I've done it, but it's taken a lot of patience, understanding, and time.

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I don’t live near you at all but I totally feel this girl its really frustrating! 😭 but if your looking for a friend just to talk to , FaceTime , or whatever I’m down! 🥰

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same nobody reaches out or hasn’t answered me

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I dont live near you AT ALL but I would live to be a long distance friend

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I found a super awesome mom friend thru a Facebook group lol, seemed weird to post but she commented & we’ve hung out a few times & talk basically every day! Keep trying! Reach out to people you genuinely think you’ll click with not just people to have around!

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Message me! I'm looking for real connections, online or in person.

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This is my second time using this app.. first time was about 3 years ago and I feel like it was a lot better then.. still hard to connect with people but I met so many people and eventually was able to find a local play group. This time around, I've gotten a whole lot of nowhere.

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send me a DM I'm not that far😊

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Hello from an East Coast mom that feels the same 😕

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I feel you on this! Wish we were closer I haven’t been able to make a friend

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I'd like to be friends, this app doesn't notify me of messages even after changing my settings. Add me on Facebook.

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I’m down

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I talk to two other people nobody really answers me I'm willing to talk I messaged you

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message me 🙋🏽‍♀️ I do lag tho 🫣 but I’m here for a real mommy connection!

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Hi! I’m starting a mama group chat if you want to join!
https://snapchat.com/t/MiBI89wB

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Ready to give up on this app

I’ve been on here for a couple weeks now, haven’t made a single friend. I’ve talked to a couple other moms but either been ghosted or don’t get passed a how are you. Messaged several ads to join group chats, no one responds? Did this app fall off or what?

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Dealing with infidelity (rant kinda)

The past few days have been very weird for me. My partner of almost 10 years came to me and told me that in the first 3 years of our relationship (before we had our son) he slept with three different women, two of which I also know one of them being his ex where he had sex with her twice. Before he told me about this, there was another instance where he kissed another woman that, again, we both knew but he told me about that almost right away and this was last year.

When he told me this I stayed quiet and honestly I just felt numb and for the past few days we've just spoken about it. I haven't gotten angry. I haven't shouted at him or screamed at him. We've almost acted as if everything is normal and it's kind of driving me insane a little bit. I haven't been able to cry about this every time I think about it, but I think it's mostly because I just can't imagine it. Our whole relationship he has told me that I've been the only one he has had sex with and it was a lie.

I refuse to talk to any of my friends or family about this because I don't want them to know what's going on and I don't want to hear their advice. I also don't want anyone looking at him any differently because of this. I don't know if it's just my brain not letting me process it all at once because it's just too much to take or if I've just given up and emotionally surrendered.

We have one son together who is 3. I am the main one who looks after him and does everything and I don't want to have a breakdown in front of him if it comes to a point where it all just comes out at once.

How does a person deal with this? What do I do? I'm so numb it's weird

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First-time SAHMs

How are we going about our days? Especially with a partner who has to work long hours :( I love bonding with bubba, but after some time during the day it gets too much and there isn’t really much to do. Any ideas on how to make the most of the day with a little baby are welcomed

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I need a virtual bestie effing friend

Judgement free, venting partner, facetime like all the damn time, plans to eventually meet/ family trips, play Roblox together,420 friendly, girls girl and a girl who’s gonna ride and die and talk shit with me about life. If this is you send me your damn number I been waiting

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i think i want a divorce..

i think i want a divorce but i have no job no education no car and i live with my MIL and have a 2 month old baby and we have a joint bank account. when i told my husband im considering divorce he flipped out and said i can go but i cant take the baby. i cant leave my baby! i said we can co parent and he said no divorce isnt an option… i fear ive messed up my life big time and im scared. i think it would be easy to leave if i didnt have my baby. what on earth should i do? has anyone else been through this??

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Work

What do people do for work with kids and trying to work around school ect I’m due to go back to work night shift 7pm-7am my 3 year old daughter goes to nursery 9-3:15 my 7 month old will be home with me my husband works day shift 5am-4pm so he’ll have kids for bedtime and my mil will stay the night for the couple of hours I’m not home in the morning and husband is at work but how tf am I gonna cope during the day with my son nursery is too expensive to put him in I’m trying to find other night shift jobs but can’t find a thing I’m dreading it I go back in two weeks

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