long venting

Its been almost 12 years I am with my husband. 5 yrs dating and 7 yrs as married couple . I'm educated as him we both have master's in engineering. I married him right after I finished my master's and opportunities come from very far distance so he told not to look that since we can't be together and need to keep long distance relationships. As a new wife I was in madly love with him and listened and started trying for competitive exams(in India it will secure future) and slowly stared passing preliminary exams, in that time he come here and did the masters here and I followed him and started working as optical consultant and it's been 3 years now. Now he is telling me I didn't looked into my field after I lost all confidence and everything. Every single day he is moking me saying I am good for nothing... I'm very depressed
Back in India I was under his mom doing every household job.. like waking up at 4:30 in the morning doing cleaning cooking until 8:30 then going to class for prepping exam then coming back again lot of housework. at least I passed the exam in between all these things. Again I left everything behind just to be with him,I am so depressed

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Nursery pick up

Just wondering what I’m doing wrong or if anyone else is in the same boat ☹️

My son absolutely loves nursery, however whenever I pick him up as soon as he sees me walk into the building he screams the place down, smacks me multiple times and throws himself around when I try to pick him up him up and comfort him. It just makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong, all the other mums have their kids run up to them for a massive hug and they happily go off with their mum but with my son he acts so different, it’s so embarrassing and I’ve had a few dirty looks for it, I honestly feel like crying everytime we leave the building, I just don’t know what to do, as soon as we get home his back to being my best friend again☹️

Useless partner (sorry it’s long I need real good advice tho pls I feel so lost atm)

So I’m 3 weeks PP, my partner has been absolutely useless towards me, he won’t do any house work unless I literally go on and on and on and even then he won’t do it because he thinks I’m being a “bully” and walks out the house, I get called everything under the sun and walked out on pretty much everyday.. he has absolutely no interest in me, he’s either in the bathroom for ages, outside vaping or goes to sleep in the car now is the new thing and walking out on us all.

He went back to work last week which I get he’s tired but I’m doing EVERYTHING myself I also had stitches due to my birth so I can’t even lift anything atm.

I have a 5 year old who’s his step child so I’m basically cleaning up after 4 people including myself, he’s made jokes about “miss postpartum and my postpartum moods” I’m seriously so u happy in this relationship it started to get like this in my pregnancy but I didn’t wanna be alone, I’m really worried to be on my own again as it means I’m a single mum to two different kids and two different dads
I’ve been saying all night how fat I feel and upset I am and he’s just gone and said to me I’m a fat c**t and I have fat fingers apparently too lol.. how lovely!!

Can I just add I do cook every dinner, wash everything up, buy everything! I’ve paid for absolutely everything this month as he didn’t get paid for one week now apparently he has no money and can’t afford it but he can buy himself vapes. I feel incredibly lonely

Girls should I just leave and be strong
Or do I try and work this out for the kids ?

Start of solids “baby weetabix”

Hi all, the pediatritian yesterday recommended us to start solids with the baby version of weetabix mixed with breastmilk. He said a specific name for this baby weetabix thing but neither me or my husband manage to remember. Anyone knows what this thing is???

How often do you say "I'm tired of this grandpa" or some other common chronicly online saying.

Admittedly I do this sort of thing often.

Baby fell off bed

My boy turned 8 months old today and unfortunately fell off my bed. He hit his head and has a 1.5cm graze. Took him to a&e and they cleared him. Sent home within under an hour. He has been fine, his normal self.
I just can’t shift the guilt and I keep crying whenever I think about it or see his graze.
I suppose I am writing this to offload but also gain any support/advice from others.
I’m already struggling atm feeling inadequate. This has just sent me over.

Homeschooling

I need opinions! How much work is homeschooling? What kind of resources are there for homeschooling parents?
I have a 5 year old who would be in kindergarten next year but is in pre-k now. Not long ago a strange man was found walking around in her school. We were told he was no threat but they have security so it makes me nervous that he got in there in the first place and is making me think more and about homeschooling. I just don't know anyone who does it on their own so I need insight before I take a giant leap and it ends up hurting my kids education.