Screens are ruining my marriage

Anyone else feel that they come second best to t.v/phone/ipad with their husband? Well its not even 2nd place, its below last place.
I can never talk to him about anything without having to shout it at him for him to pay attention (he doesn't pay attention when the kids try either). I try getting his attention first so he knows I want to talk about something, but he will literally just zone back out at the screen mid sentence, even if he's the one talking! If it's the kids wanting his attention or trying to ask him something i have to shout his name as they have tried several times, and even when he responds to them it's clear he hasn't listened to what they've said or asked and just responds randomly. I've spoken to him about it and explained that I feel ignored and undervalued and sometimes just lonely - as I've been home all day with no one else except him for company. He works 4 days a week and I understand when he's been at work he's going to want to decompress before i start talking his ear off about everything, but its the same on his days off. He just tells me that I pick a bad time to talk and I should try when he's not watching anything, but the problem is that he is always watching a screen. Whether he's doing things around the house or sat on the sofa there is always a screen infront of his face with the volume up high. I just don't know what to do anymore. Is it that he's just simply lost interest in me?

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It sounds like he’s too distracted for sure. I’d talk to him about it again, and tell him that you want to see some change in his attention on his family. Tell him to set time limits or something.

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Sounds like a bit of addiction tbh. I wonder if he would be up for a screen-limit challenge even if just to prove that he CAN put them down. If he succeeds, he might notice how much he was on his phone in the first place (I remember that FOMO feeling after lockdown when my phone was away from me!), if he fails, you know what you're dealing with.

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