Adios libido

Has anyone else struggled with just absolute zero libido post birth? During pregnancy I was feeling it, but now I have zero interest and maybe even some disgust to the point I don’t even want a kiss 🥲😅

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right there with you and it’s completely normal sadly! with my 1st my libido didn’t come back fully until i got my cycle back after a year due to breastfeeding. breastfeeding around the clock also hinders libido as well hormonally, biologically it’s designed that way so we don’t get pregnant again so soon lol. sex felt like a chore for me the whole 1st year of my sons life unfortunately, i’m hoping it’s different this time around, me and my husband still haven’t had sex fully yet because i haven’t felt ready yet with healing

Yepp!! Exactly the same! I feel so guilty. I am even weaning down off breast feeding to see if that will help

I felt like that before my cycle, now I feel the libido for a very short period of time. When I think about it, it's already gone. Sadly!!

Yep, 12 weeks pp and have 0 desire lol

Yes, except that was me during pregnancy too. My poor husband 😂 but hes super understanding and doesnt push the issue.

Yupppp, I will say like 2-3 weeks after giving birth I WANTED it lmao but now I’m just like eh, he’s understanding about it tho , thankfully. Sometimes I don’t even wanna be touched 🤣

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