Comments from people about your child

I am not great in situations like this either. You are not alone. I think it comes with time honestly. And if something happens like that again I would say so you would be ok if someone said something like this to you about your baby and they were uncomfortable? I would try to put the situation on them and make them think about their actions/what they are saying. You don’t have to show anger or be angry I think being logical and coming back at them calmly usually helps drive the point more.

I was the same! So many times I’d kick myself for not saying anything. If you plan on having a second, it’ll be at that point you’ll say “oh fuck off x” without a second thought 😅

Ooh sweetie don't worry about her .. is there any benefit from replying to her? Or fighting with her? These people need to be dismissed thats it ..
You know that she doesn't know your baby and in no place to make judgement .. forget about her and remember phrases like:
Maybe
Oh do you think that?
I am not sure
I guess we will never know
Were your babies like that?
Think of it as a ball of fire and you need to give it back to her or anywhere else .. and btw
The messenger of the creator (ﷺ) said, "I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners."
Dont let them miss up your day💐💐💐