Wake time

Anybody else have babies that wake up between 11AM-2PM? I feel so guilty over her schedule

we lay down between 7PM-9PM and she wakes up midnight for 2-3 hours sometimes. I just don’t want my to affect her schedule long term.

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Aww thats rough. When she wakes around midnight, do you keep the room dark, quiet, low stimulation to try to get her back to sleep?

My autistic child was waking up at 12am and not going down to 4am at one point..

Decided to cut out her day nap and nothing was changing.
Besides never getting any sleep myself, that was really affecting our schedule and her routine. Eventually I decided to push bed time a little later..

Honestly around 10:30- 11:30 p.m. I felt soo guilty about this for a long time and I felt judged by many as it is quite late, but she began waking up better in the morning and getting through the day better.

Now she just gets tired and falls to sleep automatically around that time period.

I learnt just do what's best for you, your child and your family and forget everyone else's opinions and society's expectations.

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Am I overreacting?

My LG goes to nursery 4 days a week (3 half days and 1 full day). We have to provide our own nappies and wipes and were told when they’re running out so we can restock, which is fine.

My issue is, the last few days, my LG has come home in a random nappy from a brand that isn’t hers and she’s started to become sore down there. When my partner brought it up to the baby room manager, her response was ‘oh well, babies are babies, it doesn’t matter and they pull them out the drawers’. For one, the drawers are high up as I’ve seen them so shouldn’t be getting pulled out and 2. If I’m providing nappies, use them because what if the persons nappies being used, can’t afford a lot?

We’ve had no issues with the nursery until this but I wonder if maybe I’m overreacting about it?

Getting jiggy with child about

My partner will try to get jiggy when our 4 year old is around. Ive told him multiple times it is a huge turn off knowing they could run in and catch us but it seems to fall of deaf ears!!!!
What others feelings on this?

Comments from people about your child

Today i went to a cafe and a woman working in the cafe made a comment about my baby - said something like “shes a cheeky one, cries when i look at her”. My baby was crying so much as she looked at my baby so i was trying to console her and couldnt say anything back to her. But i said yes shes uncomfortable and she said “ill keep looking if she cries”. I was so angry that i just couldnt respond and took my baby away and later the woman disappeared.

I feel really guilty and sad about not being able to say anything back to her and not showing my anger in the moment. I also feel like i was not able to protect my baby from that woman although i took her away.

Has anyone had anything like that happen before and how did you manage comments like this?

Naps!

When did you all start dropping to 1 nap?

My daughter is nearly 15 months old, and always fights the first nap ( refusing basically to go down unless we’re out and she’s in the pram)

Her next nap is usually around 3:30-4pm lasting 1 hour 45 minutes, but I wake her up!

I’m thinking off starting to transition her to just 1 nap after lunch time for longer just to trial how she gets on.

Today she has been awake since 1:15pm and hasn’t wanted to nap at all! She’s been busy and occupied, so I’m taking her up for a bath about 6:45, then bed for 7:30-7:45.

Hoping for a good night!🤞🏼🤞🏼