Is this a man thing or is it just my husband!!?

My husband does this thing where he will s*** all over something, then after he's tried it he'll think it's the best thing since sliced bread!!!

For example, I bought some teething powder for the baby and he went off on one about how all over the counter medication is 'woo' and ineffective, not proper medication and it's not likely to do anything. Now he's absolutely obsessed with it and gives it even when I don't think she even needs it!!!

It kind of drives me insane because I feel like I get such negativity and resistance for trying anything new!! Is this just a man thing?!

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Me and my partner are first time parents I delivered our beautiful baby boy by emergency c section 2 days ago the first night in the hospital he was as good as gold didn't really cry even as the other babies on the ward screamed but when we brought him home yesterday he had the worst second night wouldn't stop screaming or feeding and my partner bless him thought he would try do it alone because of the fact I had a c section and was shattered

Now moving onto tonight he settled for about 2 hours after a bottle and then the screaming started again but it seems that he just wants to be held sometimes we've changed and fed him a few times but as soon as he gets out down he is screaming again

What I'm asking for is advice on if this lasts and how we break the only sleeps while being held if it could last or does that go over time and we should just try to hold him for the moment and once he's a little older he will be fine

Sorry if none of this makes any kind of sense I'm very tired

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Is this a man thing or is it just my husband!!?

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Is this a man thing or is it just my husband!!?