Would you be angry too?
When we found out we were expecting our 2nd, my partner and I had fully agreed on a girls name (middle too) and boys name. The girl would have my Mums name as her middle name, this was even decided before we knew the gender of our FIRST. Suddenly this morning my partner completely changed how he wants the girls name to go. He still wants her first name the same, but now he wants her middle name to be Benjamin.... Yes Benjamin for a girl just because it is his middle name and our son's middle name. He also wants her to JUST have his last name even though our son's last name is doubled with mine and his.... I think it is utterly stupid to have two children that come from the same Mum and Dad with different last names and I even told him we are not giving a girl a middle name that she is going to be embarrassed about later in life. It pisses me off because I am the one that went through 2 months of morning sickness, I'm the one carrying him/her for 9 months, I'm doing all the appointments and ultrasounds on my own. It's like the baby will have no connection to me at all just him because he wants all our kids to have his middle name regardless of gender. And yes I already told him I am NOT going to sign any birth certificate or go to the appointment if that is the case because he is standing his ground. Would this make you angry?
