Looking for a friend near or far :)
Hi there! I'm Valeria, I'm 30 and have 2 children. I am engaged to my handsome guy who is in the air force. I am currently working full time but come July will transition to a SAHM. I love books, I'm an amazing texter (so if you're the same that would be perfect lol) I like when the conversation flows naturally. We could talk about anything and everything. I love going on walks on new trails, having coffee dates, spending time together with the kids as well as occasionally without. Having book clubs, doing diamond painting. Honestly I do a bit of everything to pass the time since my fiancee has been deployed since last year 😭 I'm very easy going, not judgemental whatsoever, love doing simple things like picnics, picking books at the library together, talk about conspiracies, you name it. So if I sound like your kinda peep feel free to message me so I know you're interested in getting the conversation going :)
Advice!! Baby, Finance, Housing
Could anyone tell me your opinions on this. My Fiancé and I are 19 and 21. We are about to have our first baby next month and currently live together in a private 3 bed house in SW england, we pay £1000 a month rent. Our monthly bills are £2100 on just our essentials (including rent), which means he is having to pull in a lot of work hours. He also is in a new self employed roll and is having to spend around 2k a month on business expenses so he is having to work 70-80 hours a week. My mum has offered us to move back into my old small bedroom and pay £70 each a week to live in the room, while we build savings since its been so expensive with me not working and we are genuinely beginning to struggle. We will have to give up our freedom, privacy and comfort, in exchange for savings.. my mum is also a heavy smoker and we both dislike the smell of smoke especially around our baby. We also have an indoor cat due to our area who hasnt gotten any shots yet and she lives with her cat. What does everyone think we should do?
