Have a partner, but feeling like a single Mom

I had my little boy just over a month ago. It all started off okay, but now it feels like he’s gotten “bored” I do most off the comforting unless I ask to get a shower and at night I’m the only one that wakes up. I do all the nappy changes and I do the feeding. I exclusively breastfeed but I pump at night and do bottles as it’s much quicker and I’m exhausted. In the morning it’s pretty much the same, I do the bottle feed and nappy change and then almost all off the time he doesn’t want to settle after and so I get up with him. My partner is lying in bed complaining he’s tired. As I write this, he said he’d be down in a second but I can blatantly hear him snoring while I comfort the baby, yet again…

Yesterday was his first day back at work after having 6 weeks paternity. He got all upset as I asked him to carry the baby down so I didn’t have to make multiple trips as im 5 weeks pp from c section and still recovering. He wanted extra sleep as he had work at 3pm…my reply was “at least you can clock out” I feel like having a newborn is working in itself and currently I’m the only one working 24hrs 7days a week. Exclusively breastfeeding is exhausting yet my partner has the audacity to snore and sleep while I’m up all night with the baby.

I have voiced my issues with him doing this and him not even offering to help, but he gets all offended! Am I asking for too much?

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