I’m interested in watching my husband pleasure and be pleasured by another woman in a purely physical way. I’m not interested in being “cheated on.” No flirty texts, no unsanctioned coffee dates. Mentally/sexually it arouses me the thought of him having his d succcked, I guess because I see how he looks when he climaxes because of me getting down on him and that control over him turns me on. He has never brought this topic up or anything. Unsure what to do. We’ve always been monogamous and never opened to anything other than with each other.
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It's a dangerous bridge to cross. There's no going back. I would keep it as a fantasy. Use mirror play when together. Or watch him by himself or using a man toy.

The most difficult thing to do is bring another party into a relationship without adding feelings. If you truly want to do this I’d say do it with a service, that way you know it’s business only, you handle all the transactions etc. but also be prepared if he enjoys it thoroughly he may want it more often, if you’re ok with that.

Send me a message directly if you like. It’s a hard topic to speak openly about