Very fussy baby help

Not sure what else I can do at this point. My little one does not settle for more than 20 minutes in an evening. He is fed, he is given infacol and well winded, we regularly check his nappies and I have taken him out for walks. He sleeps for the walk and as soon as I get back in, he kicks off again. Any advice is greatly recommended

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Welcome to the witching hours 🫠🫠 it's really normal and honestly the hardest part of newborn phase.

Inconsolable crying for several hours every day. Not fun. But it does pass. It starts as early as 2 weeks and peaks about 4-6 weeks then gets better.

Hang in there ā¤ļøā¤ļø

Pop some head phones in and crank the music up. Take baby for a walk or a drive in the car. It does pass. Make sure if you've got your other half there you take it in turns to listen to the crying. If you're on your own it is OK TO PUT BABY DOWN WHILE CRYING AND STEP OUT for a few minutes ā¤ļø

This phase is about survival. You're not doing anything wrong. It's very VERY normal.

Also worth having a look at the "fourth trimester" baby doesn't realise they are separate from you yet. Wanting to be held is normal and healthy. We are carrying mammals. Biology means we carry our babies to keep them safe and help them regulate their body temp, heart rate, breathing, digestion, everything. Xxx

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One more thing... You're not making a rod for your own back and baby isn't manipulating you in any way. Baby is just looking for you to support them ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

You're doing amazing xxx

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