Looking for a mom friend.

I’m looking for a mom bestie. Someone who won’t judge me but look at me and think omg this girl…I’m a pretty open person, kinda. Uhm I’ll either talk ur ear off or bearly talk at all, I can be out goin and energetic or I can be lazy and sit around. I either say what’s on my mind or I shut down…I’m very very weird(according to my husband). I enjoy Starbucks refreshers, ice coffee, kitchen dance parties with my kids, going on walks/going to the park,baking,grilling,bomb fires, boating…if its outdoors I’m most likely doing it, unless I see a bee of any sort…then I’m running away like a b$ch..I want a friend I can talk to about literally anything no matter how dumb. I have 3kids 4y,2y,4.5m and two dogs. I live in Minnesota about an hr from Brainerd and Alexandria. If you think u can handle my multiple personalities or just think it would be fun to try I’m ya girl.😂

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Am I Wrong?

Okay so I gave birth to my beautiful babygirl a month ago now & I’m seriously struggling with my BD. We’ve known each other since high school and were good friends and kinda lost contact after graduation (we’re both 25) so a few years later we reconnected and got into w.e tf that was🙄 so he breaks up with me (due to religious differences even though he knew my religion since HS, he’s Muslim and I’m Christian) and I ended up finding out I was pregnant 2 weeks after the break up. He wasn’t there at all during my pregnancy & that was a whole hot ass mess in itself. He was there when I gave birth and signed her birth certificate & everything but he’s been extremely inconsistent since. He doesn’t check up on her, doesn’t ask about her, comes to my house to see her MAYBE once during the week (one time he went a week without acknowledging her presence) and we got into an argument about that because he didn’t show up to her one month appointment and made every excuse in the book for it even though he was right there when we scheduled it. When he didn’t see her for that whole week (this was very recent) he asked to come by and I told him no because he didn’t bother to even check on her let alone want to see her. I did everything by myself (setting up her pediatrician, making sure she got her insurance, getting her birth certificate, etc) And now once again for this week he has yet to check on her or see her and he blames it on “being busy”. I’m just so tired of being the primary parent and he just comes and goes as he pleases and yet I’m the bad guy when I call him out on it. He doesn’t appreciate the fact that I’m taking care of her 25/8 and I thank God I have my family and friends to help. I’m just so over it and I’m really trying not to resent him but it’s honestly getting really close to that point. I’m sorry this is so long but I just need to know if I would be wrong to not allow him to see her this week if he even ask….?

struggling

I’m in my 9th week and I don’t feel like seeing anyone or talking to anyone. I feel too tired to go out and socialise. I don’t even want to go to work, and I don’t feel like replying to messages. Do you think this is temporary, or should I seek some support? I haven’t discussed this with my midwife yet.

Just want a best friend

Seriously why is it so hard to find a bestie who’s like minded. And just wants to meet up, try new coffee places and support eachother 😭 I’m in the ie. Everyone is so far away!

Thoughts on lack of s*x and initiative from husband

Ladies,

My husband doesn’t get it. He’s not taking the hint or he doesn’t care. I think he might have sexual preferences that I may not be able to cater to hence he doesn’t initiate or perhaps avoids intimacy on purpose.

I haven’t had a dry spell like this in forever. Not in my 20’s or even when I was single. I’m pregnant but there’s no reason why we should have stopped having sex when I got pregnant. I just stopped initiating too because I was exhausted and didn’t think I could initiate and lost all my confidence when my body started changing due to pregnancy.

I do like and care about him but would it be so bad to cheat if we’re sexually incompatible or not on the same wavelength? I know it’s not a good thing but I may actually like our family life together just not the lack of s*x.

Picnic Tuesday??

Hiii girlies! Anyone down to have a picnic on Tuesday? Babies/kiddos obvi allowed, it’s just going to be a nice day and I figured it’d be cute for some mommies to get together n meet and bond :) I’m 32 weeks, ftm, single too! and don’t really have any mom friends besides my cousins so I’d really like to meet some people :) hopefully we can all bond and share some advice/support :) preferably like Central Park since it’s pretty neutral for most boroughs- but I’m open to ideas :)

Looking for a mom friend.

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