Postpartum Anxiety

I’m struggling. My baby girl (almost 7 months) is sleeping next to me in the bassinet. She sleeps through the night, might wake up once but pacifier does the trick. I’m not sleeping well, I wake up panicking to check on her, resting heart has been elevated for a month so I’m definitely not getting good sleep. She makes a lot of noise and moves a lot so that wakes me as I’m a light sleeper, but she’s literally sleeping.
Anxiety meds are available to me if needed, but any advice on how I can tackle this naturally?
I stopped drinking alcohol & cut out all caffeine only bc I felt it was not helping my case. I started Ashwagandga & magnesium glycinate but it’s not really helping.

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My pediatrician told me to put baby in her own room at 6 months.She stated it would probably help both of us sleep better at night.

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My baby sleeps so much better in his own room. Literally wakes hourly if in the same room vs sleeping all the way though


But - ear plugs. Trust me, just try it. You will still hear her if she cries, either in the same room or via a monitor, but they will block out the small movements and grunts etc and you will sleep better.

You say she has a higher resting heart rate, does she have the owlet sock?

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My daughter also sleeps better in her own room. When she was sleeping with me was waking up constantly

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If you want to take the approach of something more holistic try ashwagandha.

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I put my daughter in her own room at 3 months and it’s saved my life

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I think You can get a bit of tech that you put on the cot and it tells you if the baby stops breathing, would that help?

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