Bedtime

What time is everyone’s baby going to bed ?

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Siblings sharing a bed

What’s everyone’s view on sisters sharing a double bed with a 4-year age gap?

I’ve just had a baby girl, and we also have a stepdaughter and son who stay with us every other week. We’re looking at moving house, and the girls will be sharing a room. My stepdaughter has said she’d love a big bed so she can share with her little sister, and honestly I really love the idea because I want them to have as close a bond as possible — especially as they won’t be together every night since the older two aren’t with us full time.

I’m just curious what other people think about this and whether it’s something you’d do?

Breastfeeding

I have a wedding this weekend and I’m currently exclusively breast feeding. Unfortunately kids aren’t allowed to the wedding so I’m trying to think of what’s best for my little boy. To pump or to offer formula and breast milk. He can be a little reluctant at times with bottles but will take it.
Any suggestions? 🙏
I’m also worried about what this could do to my supply

Needing to 💩 whilst having a bath

If you're enjoying a soak in the bath, and find yourself needing to 💩 what do you do?
A: Get out, go 💩 then get back in the bath
B: Hurry and finish bath quickly, then get out and 💩
C: Hold it and finish your bath as you would have, then go 💩
D: 💩 in the bath and throw it in the toilet 💀

Stop being concerned about what other women do with their boobs... It's weird

Honestly tired of all the BS around breastfeeding or not breastfeeding. If it ain't your boobs mind your own business...who cares if someone doesn't want to breastfeed (even as a breastfeeding Mum I can think of many reasons why...it's fucking hard), who cares if someone wants to stop at 1 month, 6 months, 4 years... It's not your concern or business. Unless you are an expert with a degree, just stop with the misinformation and judgement. Please and thank you

Car seats on holiday?

Looking to go to turkey next month with a 2 year old and 4 month old. The place we usually go to we hop in a taxi almost daily to get into the town/beach etc. what does everyone do about car seats when away as don’t really want to be lugging 2 car seats around haha.

What do I do

My mum has been ignoring me since I was 1 week postpartum because she was upset I didn't use her name for our newborn. It's been over 2 weeks she hasn't spoken to me and now she's randomly messaged me asking how I am. No acknowledgement at all that she's just ghosted me through probably the most difficult 2 weeks of my life? Just a casual "hi how are you doing? xx" Like??? Do I even reply? What do I say? Do I just pretend she didn't have a full blown temper tantrum? Do I just keep doing this over and over again?