First time mom

Does anyone get a little sad once in a while? (Especially when the sun starts to go down at the end of the day). Sometimes I feel lonely even though I have family in town but everyone is understandably busy. I love my baby and I am happy but still it sneaks up on me and I try to focus on the good to get through it. Just wondering if I'm the only one who goes through this.

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Yes 🥺 i ok also feel the same way and I feel so alone but I am also alone all day w the kids

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