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Anyone in this group down to FaceTime. Really need to rant to someone that doesn’t know the people I’m friends with🤷‍♀️

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Where my girls attttttt

I’m looking for the mommas that want someone to check up on them almost everyday. And I’m currently feeling like linking up soooo wya?

I'm at a loss and not sure what to do my husband and I have been together for 12 years and 3 years married however my love for him and connection is fading his true colours really showed during my pregnancy when he wasn't there for me when I needed support and only came to one appointment with me since the arrival of our daughter he hasn't really stepped up to the dad role is always working late which he chooses too and really only helps on weekends. He barely even knows her ques and what she needs or wants and she is already 8 months old. I'm so lost on what to do and yes I have been talking to a counselor about these issues just good to hear others opinions

Pls help x

Hey Mamas right, nothing to do with baby lool.

So usually my husband initiates sex and everything. Before pregnancy I used to initiate as well, but during pregnancy and after, I honestly don’t feel like it 😭. Even during pregnancy when we did have sex, I just didn’t enjoy it at all — I kept thinking about the baby etc. I’m now 2 months postpartum and definitely don’t want another baby anytime soon ofc lool.

But ladies… recently I’ve been thinking of ways to make sex more enjoyable again. How do I actually make sex enjoyable? Do you use sex toys? are you against them? Please feel free to share, I’m genuinely just curious!! Any tips would be greatly appreciated! x

Am I right?

My boyfriend took our baby to see one of his friends who is a girl but he didn’t tell me and I found out myself.. it’s not the fact he took the baby to see her it’s the fact he hasn’t told me?
We haven’t been getting on for a while and he seems to be being disrespectful a lot lately

Honest feedback

I’ve been thinking about continuing mommy & me Pilates/workout classes and creating more spaces where moms can bring baby.

Do you think this is something moms actually want? Would you go?

Would genuinely love your thoughts/advice before I continue building this out 🫶🏼

If you need a visual to see the concept my page is @motherpilatesla

Lost of friends as u get older

This picture is really my life but the couple friends I have (that I physically see the most) don’t have any children, and it’s really hard to either not get upset with them or to understand them. One of my friends, I considered a best friend, she’s actually my oldest child’s god mom…but lately her actions really disappointed me, and I’m starting to think I need to detach myself from her and just be more of a friend. And then another one I kind of just met her like 5 years ago, and the more I hang out with her the more I realize she’s just different. None of the girls have bad traits, but it just seems so hard for them to relate to me or me to relate to them because they don’t have children. For example being out with them WITH my kids which they love but it’s like they’re just not idk reliable, I’m not saying they’re responsible for my kids but just be present and meaningful I guess
Like one time the best friend said she was coming to see us, texted all day about doing this and that and she’ll be there but then texted last minute saying she not gonna come, so I was upset but I let it go then one of my boys had a competition and she didn’t show up even after saying she will. She know I don’t have a village and it means so much to me for the little bit of people in my (our) life to show up especially when said. My other friend however showed up but all she did was text or be on her phone the whole time. I really had to sit back and reflect on myself thinking maybe it’s just me that’s upset and not giving them the consideration that they just don’t get it because they don’t have kids of their own

Am I wrong?
do I need to just let the friends be friends and learn to not ask them or tell them about future plans… it’s hard making and keeping good friends now 😩😕