I need income my gosh

Why is it so hard to find reputable work from home as a sahm. We are struggling over here financially and I feel really hopeless. We have 0.42 cents in our bank account until Friday. Then most of it goes to bills. We are running low on groceries it’s making me really anxious. I want to be able to help my husband and contribute financially because this is ridiculous. I only became a sahm because we could not afford child care and now with two kids I don’t even know what to do anymore. Why is everything so damn expensive.

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Literally just went through this. Finally broke down and got a job at a daycare so my son could go. It's only my second day so who knows what the future holds. But they gave me 50% off daycare costs. Not ideal but just an idea if youre desperate. Could always keep looking for a remote position and quit if you find one.

Childcare cost is the reason my husband is a stay at home dad it's ridiculous

I didnt need any qualifications. And tbh it was really easy to get hired. I think its a very common arrangement. I did do a lot of research on different daycare and chose one that I trust for my son to go to. And one that is education based because I think thats important. I wouldnt just choose a random daycare cause not all of them will be good for your kiddo or fun to work at. My daycare has like 18 teachers; super well staffed. Which is important for your sanity because you don't wanna be the only teacher with 20 toddlers lol

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Hello, I found out my boyfriend sent his female colleague £50 for her 30th birthday as she was also going on holiday so said it was for that too. They worked together for 6 years but he doesn't work there anymore. He didnt tell me he sent her money. Hes really kind and generous but its annoying me he didn't tell me and it felt like a secret. Do we think this is odd?

intimacy with my man….

hey ladies , sooooo to jump right into this my man has been complaining about our fun time & saying i never want to “ put out “ but it’s kind of hard when he says things like “ I want to get you pregnant again “ “ I miss making love with no protection “ “ when you were pregnant I could finish inside of you “ ( I know sorryyyy tmi ) but I just need validation . i’m 3yrs pp yay , i’m finally starting to feel like myself & get my body back & in no way am I ready for another child & honestly i’m in the mindset of 1 & DONE . i love my son & he’s more than enough . but I feel like he wants another one or at least wants me pregnant cause “ I wanted him more “ or because he was able to not wear protection . but now when we do make love he pisses me off because he TAKES OFF THE CONDOM without me noticing & I get mad cause dude i’m not trying to get PREGNANT ! but then he gives me the sob story of how he can’t feel it with it on & it doesn’t feel good…. like dude idc im trying to stay protected . so it honestly makes me not want to do anything with him ! also my labido has been off since I gave birth . I don’t care to have that pleasure anymore… but I know he “ needs it “ . idk what to do . & yes i’ve talked to him about it & he just says “ I don’t remember taking it off “ or try’s lie saying he never took it off . & he just gets mad at me saying he’s so frustrated cause I don’t “ put out anymore “…..

How often would you say you need sex?

I only cave it like 2-3 times a month. This is my personal opinion and experience 👇

I feel there’s a big group of women who only crave sex 2-4 times a month and are afraid to own it. And this could be from their unfulfilling sexual experiences, problems with their partner, exhaustion, or just how often they naturally crave it and feel genuinely aroused.

And most of these women often end up having more sex than what they actually grave bc societal pressure to be a sexual woman and their partners requiring it more frequently so they end up having sex not properly aroused. And the men end up believing that that is something normal a woman can do but its not and it ends up affecting her and therefore affecting their relationship.

How often would you say you need sex?

I need income my gosh

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