Could I be bi?

Ok, I’m beginning to be a tad confused over my sexuality. I’ve always thought I’m 100% straight. Only ever been with men and had any kind of like, romantic attraction with men. I’ve always thought I’m straight bc even though I can find women to be extremely attractive, it’s not like in a way where I’d want to be with them sexually or romantically. But as time goes on, I’m beginning to kinda question. This started with noticing creators like Lainabearrgrimes & ApocalypseBrute aka Brutus Brute Leo. Laina because I find her to be extremely attractive and I love her personality, and Brutus bc I find them somewhat attractive, and relate to how they prefer pillow princesses as a touch me not, which is something I could get down with. Honestly, I truly don’t know how to properly put my thoughts into words, so I do apologize for that. I’m just kinda questioning if maybe I’m bisexual, which is hard for me to grasp bc like I said, I’ve always considered myself to be 100% straight and only began questioning this earlier this year. I’m 23 for reference. I don’t want to jump the gun and say I’m bi when I’m genuinely unsure, ya know? This is also a tough situation bc I am in a long term committed relationship with a man (have been since I was 18). So even if I could possibly be bi, I feel like I’d have to hide that part of me, not bc he’s against the lgbtq+ community or anything (he’s bi), but bc I’m with him and always said I’m straight so I feel suddenly saying stuff like this may cause issues or that he wouldn’t take me seriously. Idk how to explain it.

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Since he's also bi maybe if you explain it how you explained it to us he might understand. You could be Bi curious since you're curious about it but unsure. But never be afraid to try new things and live in your truth. If you don't you could have regrets later.

I say this as someone who is married and going through this at 25 but I'm scared to bring it up to my husband 😬

Also just looked the people you mentioned up and now I understand 😩

I think people look into it to much. Your dont need to label yourslef. Your just you.

Well as a late in life lesbian I think it’s worth exploring- now I’m not saying go out and cheat. But start deconstructing comphet. Emerge yourself into sapphic media. Journal. Explore yourself. And I’m sure your bf being bi will understand. Cuz it’s not easy sometimes to wiggle yourself from the hard grip of comphet. And you are still young! I didn’t realize I was gay until my 30s. So it’s ok to not be sure at your age. Dive into those feelings and see where they take you!

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