Cheated on while pregnant

Have you been cheated on while pregnant, did you stay?

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I was cheated on by my baby daddy who i thought loved me, it was a toxic kind of "love", I had to find out through getting a routine STD testing and the mfer still to this day denies he ever cheated but he was the only person I slept with while we were together so I didn't just "magically" get STDS from the air🙄 thankfully, they were curable! I left because if they cheat one time, they'll cheat again and they do not/will not change. I dont believe in trying to work anything out after cheating. For me, there's no coming back from that!
Sending you love & hoping you find peace. I know how hard it is finding out someone you love cheats especially when you are PREGNANT WITH THEIR CHILD but you deserve so much better. Theres someone out there that will treat you like the queen that you are🫶

I found out he was cheating when I was 6 months. I was weak and let him stay. But that was only temporary. Eventually I got the strength and kicked his ass out when my child was 2. I should have never let him back in. It was so much more difficult to get him out after.

If I'd been in that situation, it would've been the beginning of the end

in our community

IS THIS GAY?

Is a man sucking a dildo gay? For context my boyf sucked it during foreplay and I was a bit taken back but he started to say this doesn’t make me gay repeatedly but then still sucked it.

No sex

My husband always finds excuses not to have sex and most of the time it's because of the childrens and when we do it is only 2 minutes. This can't go on. I'm a woman and I have needs.This has been going on for probably 2 years now.

Am I being selfish?

So I started dating this guy at the end of January and I have two kids. He went into this relationship with plans already to get me pregnant because he wanted a family. We started being intimate about two months after dating, but I was still hesitant and uncomfortable and we started off using protection until one night. He didn’t. I honestly brushed it off and got nothing would happen because I was told by a few doctors that I could not get pregnant naturally since I had to do treatments before to conceive my second child. Well of course I got pregnant and this guy completely changed. He got lazy. He kind of got short tempered and he acts different with my kids. His family also makes me uncomfortable with some of the questions asked and the way they’re acting well today he told me he bought something for the baby off of marketplace and I just made the comment. What is it? He won’t tell me so I wrote back that I wish she would’ve told me because I’m picky with what I buy off there because you never know what type of Home it comes from and if they have pets, etc., am I being bitchy by stating my concerns? I’m already so torn with this pregnancy and being connected with this man anyhow.

Am I gay?😆

Recently started really fancying a friend I made through school run, I honestly think she is the most beautiful woman on earth and I’d devour every part of her 😅 what do I do? Do I tell her? Do I keep it to myself?

Friends

Why is it so hard to find friends who are married that vibe on the same level with. I am married I love my husband, but I also like looking at some good looking guys and I want a gf to text and gossip about it. Because we ca look, but not touch right lol.

What does a typical day of food look like?

Hey! Can someone help me with easy quick food or meal ideas? I’m rubbish in the kitchen, genuinely I hate it. Feeding my LO solids is a personal stress for me haha I also don’t quite understand what to buy in the supermarket and then translate it to actual meals for us all as I seem to have a lot of waste and I’m worried about germs if I batch cook. (I know a lot of people do it’s just an irrational fear I have)